First time pregnancy fears

[Mamazfenison]

Hi everyone im 19 and 10 weeks pregnant. Ive been feeling alot of fears
about this new journey im on and i want more girls like me to talk to about them.
what did you do to get over your pregnancy fears?

[Joceey]

Sure I can let you know how my labor goes :)

[Mamazfenison]

Thank you :) so your almost there! How exciting, i cant wait to know the sex and see an ultrasound. Im almost out of my first trimester and have seen nothing because all these doctors are making me wait it *****! Could you let me know how good or bad labor goes? Im super anxious about it.

[Joceey]

Im 19 with my first baby!:) 34 weeks +2 baby girl<3

I use to have all these fears the second I found out I was pregnant, the most being labor &delivery! Now Im just so anxious to give birth! I hate these pregnancy symptoms like you have no idea :( I love my bby girl, and her kicks, punches, and hiccups make everything worth it though. I just wished I could have enjoyed my pregnancy more and had NO symptoms at all. But I had them almost all my pregnancy.

Your fears will slowly go away since pregnancy seems to last forever haha
youll be okay :) just relax and let God put things in place

Im here if you need someone to talk to! :))

[bhtalton]

Ya my mom keeps telling me i need to be working so ill keep moving I'm Like ... Ill be alright lol i walk my dogs....my first ultrasound was free through a clinic we have here it just confermed the pregnancy and told me if the baby was growing ok And healthy and how far i was.. You might look into seeing if there is anywhere like that where you live just so you have peace of mind they gave me pics too .... II'm ready to get fat though lol i weighed 148, before i found out So im hoping not to get over 175-180 with the pregnancy and hope to get rid of it all after i want to breast feed i hear it helps with the weight ... All the fast food i eat doesn't help though i used to always cook but now I'm always just like ugh lets go get something lol... I've been trying to cook atleast 4 days a week i know it needs to be more but it seems so hard i dunno hopefully ill get better my boyfriend cooks too so that helps .... I'm ready to get big but scared lol i just pray i can get back to my size i want to go to school too but cant c myself doing it all prego ?

[Mamazfenison]

Yeah im scared of all those things too, i dont go in for my 1st ultrasound until im week 11. i feel like ive waited longer then alot of girls but its because the hospitals made me wait, they said they dont do ultrasounds till after week 9. Which made me kinda mad. I just want to see it and know its okay in there.

[Mamazfenison]

I feel like were exactly the same its crazy! My job was too demanding too and i quit recently, my mom wants me to go to college and get a job later. So i might look for a part time job but idk i just want to stay home too LOL i guess thats not good tho to be lazy while your pregnant. Walking alot and doing excercises helps with labor i heard. But yes i feel bigger around my belly button since week 5! Pretty early but i couldnt fit in my jeans anymore. Now my weight is staying the same but i feel stretching pain in my uterus exspecially at night so thats how i know its growing.i think from week 10 and on we consistantly grow bigger, So im getting ready to be huge!!!! kinda nervous..

[TyraMummyToBe]

Hi im 10weeks and a ftm too. I know how you feel.i terrified of having a miscarriage. When the scan comes having an empty sack. A still birth. Complications. Premature birth ect ... im terrified of all the possibiltys and even me not being able to love my baby has crossed my mind ... i finally feel normal knowing other people are going through the same wirrys as me ... add me If you need to chT

[bhtalton]

Omg yes the morning sickness is terrible ... And here latley everytime i eat i just feel terrible after makes me not want to eat lol but i do i just try and relax and it goes away ... The only thing I've really craved is pickles lol I've always liked pickles but more so now.... In the mornings after i get sick or feel sick i just sleep longer till it goes away.... And omg brushing my teeth is the worst makes me sick everytime ...i was working up until about seven weeks but i worked at a plasma center ... It was terrible very demanding long hours on my feet all day everyday i had to deal with very smelly people it was just horrible so i quit ... I'm looking for another job but really just want to stay home lol my sister in law just found out she is prego again but its her second and she us 27 so its just different lol do you feel fat yet? I haven't gain but three pounds but i feel bloated n my pants r snug =/ lol

[Mamazfenison]

Yeah we should stay in touch! :) yes i live in america. Its crazy how many girls are going thru the same thing at the same time. My morning sickness is horrible i feel sick everyday pretty much since week 6. No big cravings yet what about you?

[desiiangelique]

Im 19 with my first baby. I live on my own at first it was the omg I'm pregnant what do i do i have to tell everyone fear after i told everyone it turned into is my baby okayy what if something happens but now that I'm further along 19 weeks starting to feel her kick i know everything is okayy i worried about how I'll be able to afford everything but ive realized to just calm.down everything will be fine and take it one step at a time. I don't want to sound the whole pregnancy freaking out after all your baby only grows inside of you once should enjoy it not let it cause stress :)

[bhtalton]

That's awesome glad he is stepping up i hope yourfirst dr. Visit goes awesome i was really happy with the dr. I chose do you live in the united states i know I've seen allot of girls on here from other countries ... Wouldn't it be crazy if we had our babies the same day lol i know that's a long way away but feel like we should stay in touch n see what happens ... Have you had any morning sickness or weird cravings or pains?

[Mamazfenison]

Thank you too for the support it means alot! im more nervous about being a mom then anything else, i want to make sure im ready and sometimes i really doubt myself. i hope my fears go away with time.

[Mamazfenison]

Aw thats awesome! congrats to you too. i defenitley need more girls to talk to so thank you.

[mom2ariana]

nothing to do but voice your fears to others & especially your doctor. they can talk to you rationally.

i was scared of everything under the sun - once took a shower in antibacterial hand soap after some raw chicken splashed on my arms haha! i was NUTS. feel free to private message me - i know what you are going through!

[megannxo]

@mamazfenison ill be 19 in july, & im about 6 weeks now.. so my due date is around dec 31st :) i havent been to the doctor yet though for an 'official' due date. me & my boyfriend are very excitedd but im also a little nervous about it all. this site is really helping me though! if you ever want to talk feel free to private message me :) &congrats on your baby!

[Mamazfenison]

That is so cool! i was looking for someone around my age and due date too. i havent gone to the doctor yet so my due date could be off also. I go on may 14th so i will be 11 weeks or so and i cant wait to finally see the ultrasound!!! 5 years is a long time im happy for you guys, me and my boyfriend have only been off and on for a year but i met him 2years ago and before we dated we were best friends. i hope it works out for us but who knows, were so young! hes younger then me so hes kinda immature but since ive been pregnant hes got a job and he quit partying so im happy!

[bhtalton]

My boyfriend is excited too we have been together for 5 years though do hopfully he's not going anywhere ... You are the first person on here I've met with such a close due date and almost same age ... The first due date they gave me was dec. 3rd lol but after i got my sonogram they said Nov. 30th

[Mamazfenison]

I was 18 when i found out at 8 weeks i turned 19 and me and my boyfriend are pretty happy but its different for me because im the one whos actually pregnant and i feel like a mother has a lot more responsiblity than dads do. My real dad has never been in my life so i dont have too many expectations when it comes to fathers and im scared he will walk out on his kid as well.. i know i will be a great mother either way. Believe me tho im scared as HELL too girl!!!

[Mamazfenison]

My due date is december 3rd! Were so close in due dates :)
My fears are eazing up week 9 was the hardest so far. Mood swings were severe and i felt like i was loosing my mind. This site is whats calming me down because i felt alone but now i dont and its a huge relief! Now i cant wait to find out the sex, what are you hoping for? I want a boy.

[AlishaJade19]

Im 4 weeks pregnant and only found out 2 weeks ago and im also 19 in 2 months..... I was shocked but me and my boyfriend of 4 years are over the moon.... Couldnt really say the same for my mum lol. But i understand where your coming it is scary this is my first baby too..... And didnt think i would get pregnant for another 2 or 3 years yet.... But i bet my baby will be so worth it in the end..... Even though im nervous as hell!!!!!!! Haha x

[bhtalton]

I also agree with guerita520 I've been to the ER twice and it was the weekend and my doctor wasnt answering ... But it was just for weird feelings n pains i had never experienced  before i didn't know if it was normal or not... Everything was fine though and really made Me feel better .... I have felt so many new things and emotions its crazy and im not even that far along lol

[bhtalton]

I'm 10w2days when's you're due date? I'm also a first time mom I'm 20... I've been scared about allot of things but then i remember the stress is not good for my baby so i just try to shake it off i bought alotof books lol they really are helpful and my doctor has really put me at ease ... When i saw the baby they said so far so good so that really made me feel better =) when are you due I'm due Nov. 30th

[guerita520]

When i googles stuff.it made me feel like i needed to live.in a dam bubble haha

[guerita520]

I agree with yourstruly21