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HELP! when is a possible date i concieved based on period and also sex dates dates

hi, I need help figuring out a estimated conception date. ok I had a period November 18th of 2013 that last around 6 to 7 days which is normal for me. I have a regular period that comes between 27 29 days then another period November 28th of 2013 but only lasted 3 days but I took plan b 2 in the week before. had sex between dec 2-dec6. spotted very light dec7-8th then on the 9 it got a little heavier then stopped. had sex dec 10-13th then on dec 16th I had sex with my ex but I was standing up and he didn't *** all the way inside me just like at the tip of my*** and I stayed standing to let it fall out. then on dec 22nd-24th sex with my current bf the one I been having sex with and on jan4 2014 I was told to be 4 weeks and 2 days. then jan 21st 2014 I had a vaginal ultrasound and it said I was 6weeks 3 days then on june 20th 2014 I was 27weeks and 4 days pregnant. On an estimate with all these dates when did I most likely conceive on the 22nd-24th with my current boyfriend or my ex on the 16th in which he didn't penetrate or ejaculate all the way  also I wasn't fertile.  ***also im 32 weeks and 3 days today and its 7/24/14 based off of what my doctor say
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I'm due Sept 8th I conceived on Dec 16. So I'd say your bf is the dad.
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Plan B can alter the days that you ovulate. So it can very well be your exes baby. But I would sit both of them down and let them know what happened. Bad news doesn't get better with time. I hope it's something that you and your BF can and will work through. Good Luck! Sorry that you're going through this.
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134578 tn?1693250592
Hi, Laurenrose, I answered where you posted on the DNA/Paternity forum.  Have a question for you there.
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Honestly you won't really know till the baby's born & you get an DNA but if you don't want your bf to know test the ex first and if he's not you don't have to bring it up to your bf
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Some doctors do say that after having sex and the man come inside you the stuff stays in side for like 3 or 4 days so maybe your ex
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Thank you for actually being patient and positive because i know you don't have to unlike some people who can be rude. But i also agree, i have a pretty normal period. And my boyfriend seems to have all my pregnancy symptoms this will be our first child together. Also her ultrasound pictures she looks like my boyfriend. He gained all my baby weight and he even got the morning sickness in my first trimester
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Since your cycle was kind of all over the place you really cant go by a fertile calculator.  Its very possible the ex is the father. Those dates are very close together. And your fertile BEFORE you ovulate. Ovulation last 12-24 hours. Where you can get pregnant from having sex 5 days before you ovulate.... it can honestly be either man.
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Just based on the average period , and my personal experiences , I'd say it'd be your boyfriend , cause I usually ovulate 2 weeks after my period the start , which is normal for a lot of people . So that would be around the 22/23/24 for you .
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September 15,2014
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What's your estimated due date?
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i did and i wasnt fertile on the day we had sex on the 16th but i ovulated on the 22nd and i had sex with my current bf on the 22-24
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Google a conception calculator, itll help you decide what makes you feel better, but by what I could pull up it looks like your ex.
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thank you and I understand but it was a one time mistake with my ex. Also I took plan b like 2 months before I was pregnant I was just adding that information. but my main sex dates are dec 16th and dec 22-24th found out I was 4w2d on jan 7th
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This is why it's never smart to juggle between guys without sturdy protection. Like birth control. Or condoms. A woman is actually pregnant 10 months not 9. So it very well could be your ex doesn't matter if you were standing up or not sex is sex *** is ***. It only takes one swimmer to get you pregnant.  Plan b won't terminate the pregnancy if you're already pregnant so that's something else to maybe worry about. I hope the outcome is what you really want. But deep down you know who the father is you can feel it. Have a chat with both of them and be completely honest. Because if you're not it's not only your life or these guys life you have flipped flopped it's a baby's as well. Have a safe rest of your pregnancy..
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