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I need someone to talk to I'm 15 and pregnant is anyone willing to keep in contact with me? I need advice from someone older someone who has had a child I need someone to talk to that I know won't tell my secrets...please
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4906205 tn?1360810714
Also my fiance is in the military so I spend at least Every other night alone so I can relate in that aspect as well
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4906205 tn?1360810714
I am 20 years old pregnant with my second child my first was terminated by my mother when I was close to my third trimester She punched me in the stomach and killed my son Something I've struggled with major depression and Suicidal ideations But I know my son is going to come into this world and seeing as how I'm already in love with them he's going to be raced the best way that I can I know it seems to be hard right now I know Stupid females in preppy people like to gossip but you know they only gossip to boost their own self esteem Just don't let it get to you you know one thing I found is if you turn around and laugh right at them They tend to walk away a little pissed off and yeah it's kind worth it but you know Your little bundle of joy that is your reward trust me it's going to be tough but it's all going to be worth it Shoot me a request and you can talk to me and Message me anytime you want
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I got pregnant with my first daughter when I was 15, I had so many people talking bad about me, but I was extremely excited about being a mom. I'm now almost 22 & having my second daughter in a week:) you can do it hun I'm here to talk anytime
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I had my daughter at 15 I'm all ears
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4922269 tn?1367813296
I had a baby at 15 too but I decided to go with adoption, it was best for me. I still see he once a year and she will know me. I had a boy at 18 and Im pregnant again at 20 having another girl. My son is with me and I wouldn't have it any other way but Im glad I was 18 when I had him. I have grown up a lot. I never had to deal with gossip and rumors, that was 5 almost 6 years ago so idk about any of that sorry but Id just ignore it if you can or stand up for yourself. Im 5'3" now idk how tall I was at 15 lol but I was around 100 lbs. Not trying to scare you, Im sure it wasn't because of my age, but I got blood clots in my uterus and bled out a lot after giving birth and had to get a blood transfusion. Im sure everything will be ok I know its hard but you will figure it all out. Good luck.
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I was 15 in pregnant with my first child and i took the rumors and gossip with a grain of assult they are going talk reguardless i was once in your shoes you just gotta be stronger person now that your goin to be a mommy and not let them bother you if you need to talk im here
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Hi, am 22 this month and just found out am pregnant from a home pregnancy test, am yet to tell my parents to make it worse my mum is african, my dad is asking me over to the US but he doesn't know am pregnant,just my bf and I know, and I feel like you've been thru this b4 pls can u talk2me ,I dnt even know how to go about this,I feel like havin my baby but sum part of me wants it out because am really shy and ashamed,I have cried and cried and ofcourse I know it can't solve anything
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And just remember your boyfriend is doing what he has to do as a man. Try not to have any animosity towards him for you having to deal with this by yourself. It happens alot with young couples. But it's one thing you have to overcome. He's working and being responsible and you should be thankful for it no matter how stressed out you get.
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I was 15 when I had my son he is 8 now. And now I'm 24 and I have 4 children ages 8,4,2 and 6 months. And I just got off of birth control so were leaving this one in God's hands. People are going to talk but what you have to do is ignore them. I'm not going to lie being a teenager and having a baby is going to be the hardest and most lonely thing you will ever have to do. I hope for the babies sake the father will be around. I'm now married to my children's father and it has been a long hard 10 years. But we have grown so much together. And now he does things that I could never have imagined him doing. But it took alot of growing up for him to get to this point.
If you want to talk you can message me privately it doesn't matter. All the ladies here are great and no one will judge you here. I have gotten the greatest support from this site and my Medhelp family.
Just remember they are rumors and even if they are true..who are they to judge you? I'm sure they are not perfect so they shouldnt talk about you. Just remember that. Everyone has bumps in the road but what matters is how we learn from them.
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DONT WORRY,IM 5'3 & WEIGHED ONLY 95 POUNDS WEN I FOUND OUT I WAS PREGNANT. . IM NOW AT 20 WEEKS AMD WEIGH JUST 102.&im 19
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I was 16 when I got pregnant with my first child. There will be people who talk about you but who cares your gonna be a mommy and your baby will love you no matter what anyone else says!!!! If u have any questions or just need to.talk I will be more than happy to.help!!!
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Hi, I'm 24 n I'm 11 weeks pregnant with my fourth baby I got pregnant at 16 n  I weight 105 I miscarried cause I fell while playing volleyball, was trying to hide it not didn't take care of myself, then I had my bby at 17, n kept my weight after birth :) so I know wat u r going thru need help just ask
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Heh girl.. i'm jess.. hit me up if ya need anything.. how far along are you?
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I was 15 when I had my soon its hard but you can do it. I had my 2nd baby at 19 and now my husband and I are going on ourthird he's in the army as a sgt so its nice now but I'm going to give you advice you need to stay in school and graduate. It was very hard for me with rumors but now I look at the people who were being rude and laugh because even tho I got pregnant easy a young age I finished school got married have two healthy boys and a .nice house and its the best feeling knowing they didn't.get to me snag I pray you get threw this and live an amazing life there is hope
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I'm 20, 18when I first got pregnant   19  when I had my son, now having another little boy, you can talk to me I'll help with whatever I can :-)
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With your bf being so far away I would suggest you have another support system closer to home like a parent, aunt, grandparent whoever your close to. As for rumors just brush them off. Maybe you can graduate high school early, I graduated a year early by taking extra classes, talk to your school counselor if you want to try that. Good luck!
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What to expect when expecting, Your pregnancy week by week, a nutritional book/ cookbook, and The ten things your doctor won't tell you abt pregnancy!! The last one is really funny!!
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1925157 tn?1328929017
Your doctor will give you books and lots of info also when you go for your appt, some doctors give you 15 $ pregnancy books for free :)
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1884497 tn?1330449059
When I was preg I was a d before I got preg while preg went to being a triple than after I had him went down to a double d
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What were they called?
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When I was first preggers I bought four different pregnancy books..they helped me tons!! I still read them with each pregnancy..;-)
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Don't stress  over people and the drama. It's not good for you! Just worry about you  and your baby
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1194973 tn?1385503904
Many people are unhappy with the hands their dealt for various reasons. There's nothing wrong with it, it's a natural part of life. It's good that you're happy, you should cherish it. Children are a wonderful thing, but that doesn't mean it's all a cake walk. Talk to your family, your friends, other mothers or pregnant women. You WILL need that support, because it's a hard road.
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So obnoxious why can't ppl b happy with what god gave them! And I don't mean just body parts. God gave me a child and its a beautiful gift that Iam more than happy with
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