We got a crib, a pack and play, and some onsies so far. Im only 15 weeks.
Buy blankets that are not gender specfic towels wash clothes a crib
Those white onsies, if your using bottles or if not then a breast pump, Boppy pillow, that's all I can think of. I am really just looking at the things I want to buy for either a boy or girl whenever we find out what we are having. If that makes any sense :)
Im 17 weeks already have crib and stroller x)
We did gender neutral car seat stroller high chair changing table. Then we can use for all babies and just change the bedding. If your going to have a baby shower... Maybe my family and friends just have an obsession but we got over 15 blankets! We packed all of the neutral ones away since we had a girl. If this one is a boy we have plenty for him too!
Never too early to shop! As long as you're both comfortable no problem! Onsies, pacifiers if you plan on using it, blankets, burp cloths, bottles, wipes, diapers, crib, socks, toys, all sorts of things :)swings! Bouncy seats.
dipars and wipes lol clothes that have the color for a boy or girl and maybe some blankets lol :) maybe this could help ! congratulations on your baby !(: my hubby was super exited as well when we first found out .