im starting to

[dessy417]

I'm starting to hate my relationship, I'm 19 weeks pregnant and we moved out on our own a couple weeks ago. now we have 4 hours a day together only because his work schedule well today we had more time together because he had different work schedule anyways he comes home all pissed off saying I'm not taking you anywhere today, because he dropped a tire on his foot i don't have a licence and i really need to get to the store. anyways we had like 7 hours together tonight and we didn't even talk for five minutes i have to clean the hole house cook do laundry and take care of his cat all day i had to put his cat on meds hes so bad, but I'm not even allowed to walk to the gas station because that's the hang out spot down here i guess he thinks if i see once of my x's I'm gonna run off and have sex with them. he doesn't like me spending the day at MY PARENTS while hes at work. he won't even pay attention to me for five minutes hes not going to my sonagram to find out what the baby is because he has to work he won't take off that day or be a hour late when his boss is really nice and understanding, he walked off and went to bed without even saying he was doing so i think we kissed only once today we don't have sex anymore we don't even go to mcDonalds anymore hes like a roommate not a boyfriend and I'm about done with this relationship i love him with everything i got but he's neglecting me in every way he can! I'd rather be on a park bench then in this house right now if it wasn't this late at night I'd have my mom come get me so i could stay with her so I'm just gonna sleep on the couch because I'm tired of being the only one putting in a effort into to this relationship i honestly don't wanna sleep in the bed until he treats me like a PERSON.

[dessy417]

I'm not gonna leave him i meant by staying wit my mother that i would stay the night to show i mean business, hes not horrible with the child he came and kissed and played with my belly the first time he heard the heart beat idc if he's not there to find out the sex hes still gonna know and my Dr gives a dvd he'll see the baby and see what it is himself just not live. he just needs to understand that i need the support i gave him when he came off drugs he relapsed once in the two weeks he quit and i didn't jump down his throat. all he needs to do is talk to me for a hour a day, i really don't mind cooking and cleaning when he's acting like he deserves it but when he acts like a *** i wanna punch him he is spoiled to death but I'm not gonna leave and not give my a child a fighting chance of living with us both in one place. he's already picked out comical onezies for a boy or girl. I'm not gonna give up on him he quit meth for me the worlds most addicting drug I'm sure he can quit acting like a five year old for me if i give a choice of having me and stepping up or me leaving and he can be on moms *** the rest of his life. but I'm still pissed i have to train him like animal to behave. but just because he was spoiled doesn't mean i have to leave him me him and our child deserves a good fight to making it work I'm not just gonna walk out on him for being a *** my dads a *** a real cheap Lazy *** too but my moms still with him my dad doesn't even like dropping 5 dollars on me for tampons but he supports his family should my mom leave him? i think its okay to be married to a *** as long as they can be there when you need them to be.

[scadazz]

he sounds immature, selfish and arrogant. its not you, its him. its not going to be any easier when you have bub, infact, it will be harder.
i know you think that raising a child is going to be hard to do on your own and there is a lot of stereotyping for young mothers but how hard is it going to be for your mental health raising a baby in that kind of environment. i think you should confront him and tell him to pull his head in and step up. move back in with some one close to you who can offer support

[scadazz]

he sounds immature, selfish and arrogant. its not you, its him. its not going to be any easier when you have bub, infact, it will be harder.
i know you think that raising a child is going to be hard to do on your own and there is a lot of stereotyping for young mothers but how hard is it going to be for your mental health raising a baby in that kind of environment. i think you should confront him and tell him to pull his head in and step up. move back in with some one close to you who can offer support

[AlishiaDanielle]

I know how you feel, im 17, and my boyfriend is 18. (both of our birthdays are later this year) but anyway, being a young parent its stressful. My boyfriend is acting end exact opposite. He wont leave me alone! I can't get ten minutes to myself and its killing me. I think, its probably more stressful on the guy, you know, having to provide for his family. I think hes trying to be a man and grow up, but going about it the wrong way. So is my boyfriend (by smothering me :/)
Just talk to him about it. You guys are having a baby, you need communication.

[TxMamma]

I think you should move home. He seems a touch mentally/emotionally abusive. He probably doesn't even know it b/c he's so spoiled it's just natural for him to behave that way.

[mommyofhayden_]

I meant how she was feeling a bit fed up with him. I have realized that with my pregnancy i have been more irritated with the things my fiance does. My fiance is 19 and in the beginning he did things that i believed were completely unforgiving. I remember him going out with his friends at 11:00 pm when i have had my head over the toilet with terrible morning sickness and i had been passing out. Some younger guys do not understand that we need love and support from them through our pregnancy. I didn't mean that the reason he is acting that way is because of your pregnancy, however it could play a part. I never fully understand what my fiance is thinking, i can say that he has gotten a lot more supportive and we have grown together. I hope that he straightens out. Goodluck hun <3

[dessy417]

Hes 18. and in some ways your all rights its kinda hormonal like i shouldn't get super mad for him not taking me to the store but he also shouldn't get pissy about it either he shouldnt take a accident a work out on me. and also he is very neglectful he can get a 800 dollar stero system and a 300 dollar tv but he won't get me a 20 dollar router or pay 50 dollars to unvirus our computer or even take me to walmart to get my kitten worm medicine. Its his mothers fault hes like this tho his dad wasn't in the picture and he was a only child she NEVER told him no. we went to his house a 3 in the morning one day to get something we needed and he had her cook him food! she didn't even argue about it she just said okay cleaned his room for him let ten kids live with her bought them all weed and pills she'd wipe his *** if he asked and that's not a lie, she has acted like his slave since he was born she can't have her son not getting what he wants even once so now hes got it in his head that women are slaves and he doesn't have to do anything to keep his woman. This cat was raised by her when i got him you could see his bones just because when she fed the cat her damn dog would steal his food and she said she wouldn't put the dog out because it scratches the screen door and it bothers her she buys her dog a happy meal like are you kidding me? I'm spending hundreds of dollars to save this cats life and your buying the dog a happy meal? and its only because the dog begs, the dog knows what the microwave is if she hears the buttons she comes running oh and the dogs allowed to bite me because its their dog and it makes their dog happy this cat now has anxiety and screams at night her son now treats me like **** and i can't have a candy bar when its the only thing I'm craving but he can get a 6 dollar burger on his lunch break every day. why you ask because she was NOT a mother she was a friend i had to get her son off meth because she was buying it for him couldn't say no and I've had to take this cat to the vet multiple times and he now has to be on meds from being attacked by a dog everyday this cat is 3 was all black but has a very large amount of gray hair from stress. I'm sorry but if you ALLOW your kid to do meth under your roof your are NOT a mother. my child will never be left alone with her it'll probably be licking a plug in because she can't tell it no. if he'd do it I'd put him in couples therapy so he could get it in his head that she was wrong and he should help me and should help take care of me no i don't need him to baby me but if I'm craving a candy bar what's a dollar gonna do to you? I'm just fed up of being in his family in my family if i acted like him I'd get smacked and the only thing i was allowed to do is have a sip of a wine cooler every now and which is still wrong and illegal but its not meth ya know?

[dancerz82]

This is definitely NOT a part of pregnancy. my partner is loving attentive and comes to every uktra sound and hospital appointment.

He sounds like he is ignoring you and neglecting you. He also sounds like he doesn't trust you at all!! Before you do decide to leave him, it may be worth having a talk to him first.

Tell him how you feel  and see if he is just stressed out. Before you make a decision you may regret. Talking can't hurt.

[PriceFamily91611]

Your 17, how old is he

[mommyofhayden_]

This is definitely part of pregnancy. I have felt like i hated my relationship because of stupid stuff my fiance was doing, it got better though. I know how you feel though! I'm 32 weeks now and these hormones have over stayed their welcome!