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Everywhere I go somewhere some man still tries to talk to me , I'm like 9 months pregnant why are you trying to talk to me.  Or they be like we having a boy or girl,  or they'll wait till after the baby here.  Like it's getting on my nerves.  I know I'm not the only one  this happen to.
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I get it too! Im 29 weeks and get these perverts chatting me up. Im like 'can you not see that im pregnant? Creeps!!
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Lol this is even more disgusting . . .Men LOVE pregnant girls because in their head you're already pregnant so they don't have to use protection to have sex and they can n u t inside you .!!! Lmao I watched a documentary about fetishes and 97% of men love pregnant women for that reason in particular .
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Its so odd! I havent had a man say anything to me, but i thought the gross staring men do would stop. Nope! If anything its worse now.
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Lmbo girl i work in a gas station ive heard it all i had a man tell me he was gonna wait for me to get off and take us meaning me and my baby home freakin creeps
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I work at a gas station and it's HORRIBLE especially on over nights and the fact that my manager is only 4 days ahead of me in her pregnancy too we hear it all night every night.
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7375907 tn?1402102372
I was in the middle of a conversation with my mom went some woman goes what are you have? Is it a boy? When are you due? And I was like uh yes its a boy and next month I am due. And she said congrats and walked away really fast. I was like ok?
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Try being DD for your siblings and friends lol.. I did it for the first time in almost 4 months (I stopped going out at about 3 months when I started showing) and seriously, drunk men + clearly pregnant woman at a bar = bad news! I finally just went and had my friend stay near me all night so they would leave me alone! That's the last time I'll be going out while pregnant :/
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7913316 tn?1399673088
Girl im 9 months && the same thing happens to me im like I look pregnant! I know you knw im pregnant! How or why would you try to talk to a pregnant lady! Like it blows me what the h.e.l.l. are guys thinking!
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973741 tn?1342342773
I think it happens for two reasons.  A.  pregnant women are kind of sexy and B.  they are safe.  Not just for pregnancy to sleep with but in general.  The assumption is you have a man too.  

men flirted with me when I was pregnant.  I actually kind of liked it because I wasn't feeling my hottest.  :>)  Made me feel good when I had big swollen feet and maternity clothes on.  

All sorts of strangers talk to you when pregnant about the baby---  I guess they figure it is an exciting time and people want to talk about it.  
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Some men are really perverted and nasty but just keep your head up and if they pester you too much tell them to **** off. Let the hormones take control haha :)
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It actually happens quite alot to me they always have something to say...... just shameful or my ex's have been messaging me and they are all like leta hook up it can be our secret since you cant get pregnant.... I just dont get it
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8744108 tn?1411750437
It happens to me too :/ some guys are so disgusting and pathetic.
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