Ive had people telling me the same thing and I think its highly insulting especially coming from women who have already had kids maybe because I try to maintain a healthy weight and they ended becoming fatties
People didnt used to believe I was pregnant because I didnt start getting I bump till last week at 21w im now 22w and you can tell even work said if I hadn't have shown them the scan pictures they wouldnt have believed im pregnant its so annoying I was tiny before I got pregnant 102 pounds ive only gained 4 and a hald poinds up to now but thats through being sick all the time
i show people my ultrasound all the time. my babys a little bean in the ultrasound but I'm like see theres my baby so please stop. i think they are jealous. cause we are blessed with little babys and pregnant women are cute too. ohh well lol
Omg yes! I am 7 1/2 months pregnant and people will tell me i look too small all the time. I feel like a whale and ive been gaining weight like crazy. I gyess it just drives me nuts bc they are always saying i dont look,that far along when clearly i know i am. And most the time its the staring that gets me bc im only 21 they think im too young to have a baby. I been,with my bf for 4 years and we own a house together and i just bought a brand new car for the baby and i have a good job as well,as my bf. Were doing great better then most older parents that live around me.
I think that might be an attempt to make conversation. I'm five months along but I always wear my husband's T-shirts (even before I got pregnant) so when people say stuff like that I just pull the stomach tight and sick my belly out a little bit, say "i'm getting there!" And leave it at that. If they try telling me i should eat more, I just brush it of with something like, "In a few months I'll be stuffing my face, so I'm not worried." It usually shirts them up. Lol
Lol it's so irritating! I finally brought in my ultrasound pictures to shut ppl up, but they still had something to say. I think it's jealousy!!
yes. people tell me the same thing. "you don't look pregnant" and they always ask my babys daddy to go to the doctor with me so i can prove i am because a lot of people don't believe i am. but I'm only 8 weeks! of course I'm not going to show wtf! and i was also small pre pregnancy. people always got to have something to say but I'm like f you worry about your own life. girl you are not alone