Thank you for your response, i am feeling more anxious by the day. This pregnancy came as a complete shock & I cant deny my initial feelings were not as they are now. However, my husband & I (& my other 2 boys 18 & 10) have really gotten excited now & we feel as though this baby is a gift to us. As you said I would not want to lose this baby due to an amnio complication. I am from the UK but live in Spain. I thought I would get better care by going private rather than through the Spanish system (which has a good reputation apart from being old fashioned regarding the actual birth). I am beginning to think otherwise now, the guy who done my amnio is my regular OB & he said he would get somebody to help him next Monday. I wasn´t given any information apart from what I got myself off the internet. I really dont feel comfortable about it all, never mind that it is costing a fortune! I am going to visit my local Dr tomorrow & get transfered to my local state hospital which I presume are a lot more experienced in these procedures. I am starting to think I might be better of going back to my home country for 6 months where i can understand everyting 100%, i do speak spanish but obviously it is not the same as conversing in your own language. I was ready to go ahead with it on Monday but I have changed my mind, thank you for your advice
Hi!
I have had 3 amnios myself--so I can sympathize. My best recommendation to you:
If your husband insists that you have the procedure done, then you and he need to arrange for a specialist to do it. I had all my amnios done by a perinatologist (high risk Ob doctor). (I myself am a general OB and won't do an amnio if a perinatologist is available).
Perinatologists do these procedures almost daily and they are experts at them. They rarely "miss".
You do not sound comfortable with the procedure or the doctor, and I think you would be devastated if you lost the pregnancy due to an amnio complication, which is much more likely to occur in the hands of a non-specialist. At 41 you don't have lots more years to try again, so hang on to this one, and don't take risks!
Good luck!
Dr B