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Am I the only one who doesn't want to share my child's father with his son from his previous relationship?? Its like until now I have loved his son like my own but now I just don't want to share like the way I grew up is no with no outside children me and my brother and sister had our father to our self no sharing and I kinda want that for my child... ugh I never thought i would feel this way until I got pregnant.. now I can't stand when he comes over to visit
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The way you worded this sounds terrible but I understand what you mean. It's not that I don't want his son around or to visit bc of jealousy.  Mines more of the fact that I don't like other people's kids and his son annoys me like no other.  I feel like a Complete a s s bc he treats my son from a previous relationship like his own and helps with him alot. It's hard.  I feel like he won't have the same light in his eyes with our daughter bc he's already gone through all this. And I absolutely HATE dealing with his baby momma. She's soo stupid alot nd I can't stand her!
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I think this is a normal feeling to have being pregnant with your first child. I felt the same exact way. But, after my baby was born I realized it wasn't competition... who daddy loves more... the love was equally shared & his son and my daughter got along well. I read about this,  seems normal.  
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