I'm not that far along & my last 2 pregnancies ended in miscarriages so I can (kinda) understand my husbands lack of excitement right now over this pregnancy. BUT.....he NEVER once has asked how I'm feeling. Not once. doesn't ask if want or need anything. Doesn't offer to DO anything, like cook, dishes, laundry, vacuum, ANYTHING. Because of the miscarriages he knows I need to take it easy but he doesn't step up to do a damn thing. We have a 9 yrs old son who last couple of nights is waking up in middle of night. Last night I got up, walked him back, tucked him in, sat with him for a bit, then back in our room he was. Did this about 3 times b4 I just gave up had him switch places with me so I could get some rest. Did my husband once get up & take turn with our son? No! did he offer switch places with our son? No. Tonight same thing but I just switched right away & now I'm venting in my kid's bed. Man I'm hot right now. I should be trying to figure out what my kid watched that has him freaked out but instead I'm pissed at my husband. Oh & to top it all off we have a cat. I'm not allowed to do cat box anymore. Husband hasn't done it or reminded son to do it. So the cat poops in the bathtub. Ok no big if she gonna poop somewhere other than her box, bathtub great clean up option for us. I'm outside raking leaves. I come in. Husband says "did u see what cat did?" I'm all yep. Did u clean it up? He's all "no but I will later." I'm all seriously? So i supervise son clean out cat box with towel over my face. Force my husband to pick up the poo in tub cuz I gotta go pee & hello shouldn't be inhaling cat poo smell or touch it which is why I cant clean out the box in the 1st place. Most pregnant ladies are weepy & sentimental (i was 1st pregnancy) this time I'm just I'm pissed. I'm angry, I'm mad. & it starts with my husband. He doesn't care. He just doesn't care. I can't force him too. Why should I have to ask him to help me? Shouldn't he care enough to just offer? Ok he never helped or did anything when I wasn't pg. I do every household thing. Everything. But knowing your wife is pregnant & needs to cut back shouldn't he offer? Oy!