upset :/

[mcrissa]

So today I caught my bf with porn in the shower like really? Why hide it amd then still try and deny it! We have sex everyday more then once so idk what the problem is am I not good enough or what?  

[mcrissa]

Yeathats true inust dont want to end up with a porn addict who is soo into that he cant have sex with me anymore . Amd ifeel like porn just leads to cheating sooner or later but iguess time will tell ugh it just upsets me because when I do it he gets upset amd its like well y dont we doit together amd he geys butt hurt

[leelee561]

My man will have sex with me then go right to downloading porn on the phone to watch later, he'll wake up and watch porn, take a break from work and watch porn, pretty much any free time he had he watches porn, he may not masturbate but still watch it, I HATE it, however..his explanation is this, being faithful in a relationship is not easy with gin seeing all the beautiful women around, big booties, and breasts, some throwing themselves, but because he knows he loves me and he had a good, willing woman, watching porn allows him to relieve the fantasy of having multiple women without actually doing so..most porn he watches has those women with those big ole booties, and hey I can't be mad because that's his type, I don't have that big of a butt. So yes, it's kind of a lose lose in an emotional way, however, if it wasn't for porn, greed probably wouldn't be able to fight temptation, him being so young arty 23/24 in September.

[mcrissa]

Haha Thats a good way to look at it

[alexiswoods]

the way I see it , no matter how much sex they're getting , maybe sometimes they want a solo time with their hand . lol

[mcrissa]

Iwouldnt have a problem with it if he didnt lie about it and hide it ilike to watch porn to and try whatever I see but the problem is he wants to hide it like why hide it when we can doit together u know

[rosiev323]

I'm not confident enough to Let my man watch porn n if I'd catch he's a dead man
I just feel like I'm more than enough of a woman n I'd do anything to please him n he should not have to watch these hoes to get off n if  he does then I'll find a man who doesnt

[joannagonzalez]

I didn't explain the other side but there is guys that take porn to the extreme where it can really bug the relationship but then again only you know your man well so you'll know when its becoming a problem where he might be cheating or something but if you got a good thing going on and he has that on the downside I'll rather know than being lied on keep it real men. Its not fair but girls don't let it stop you from watching it here and there

[Mommy_Garcia14]

I don't think it's anything to be mad about !!
Men are men they watch porn !!!!
My man watches it & I have no problem with it I'll even sit there and watch it with him eventually we'll start trying some new moves lol I love porn who doesn't ?!?!? Shoot when he's at work I'll watch it by myself ;)

[Leahsarah24]

My ex use to do that and yes he was obesesed with porn he never had sex with me all he did was porn and I dont agree on porn we dont do Iit so why should they

[mcrissa]

Me too like idk what to do he gets mad when I say lets watch it together or when I want to try something new he gets upset . If it keeps im I feel like im going to have to leave him I hate liars

[joannagonzalez]

Aww so many mommy's have the same problem, its just a guy thing don't we see the pattern but I totally understand how you girls feel I remember when I found out as well lol I was pregnant to and oh man it kicked my but I was so self conscious but its gotten better me and my partner know he watches porn here and there but I just don't pay attention to it anymore see it as there lazy to do the real thing no lie!! Lol besides you learn new moves but cheer up ladies y'all look good especially with there baby growing in you! :)

[pregomomma15]

I am the same way n my man denies it. it bothers me cuz he lies about it. n the videos r there in the history n I'm down to do whatever he wants. n when I want to watch it with him he will get mad n turn it off. I feel like I'm not enough now that I found out I'm pregnant.

[mcrissa]

Iknow its just porn but ive seen so many men who get so into it they cant even have sex with their partner anymore they prefer masterbation and iknow those are extreme cases but it bugs me kind of

[angibaby91]

Its better than him going out and cheating. I use to get mad but ive learned if its what hes into and wants to do chances are hes not gonna stop. Its just porn.

[mcrissa]

I'm starting to see that I lose either way :/ ugh ifeel so self conscious too:/

[beautifulmami_]

I've been going thru this problem for awhile and its made me feel selfconsious. When we first started our sex life was on fire now its burned down a little bit so with him watching porn it makes me feel like hes coming off thinking about other girls. ..BUT I've come to realize I rather him watch porn than go out and cheat on me ... its a lose lose thing

[mcrissa]

Yes he did but I feel like is still going to watch it. Ijust dont want him to end up being so addicted to porn that he doesnt want to have sex with me iknow alot of women whos bfs n husbands spend allday on it and then dont want to have real sex . It worries me

[AirForceWife0419]

Omg! This happened to me the other day! It made me feel so self conscious but we worked things out. Hopefully he apologized by now and made up with a little make up s** ;-)

[mcrissa]

Ido alwsys want to try new stuff and sometimes he doesnt want to and it gets me mad. But idk what to do I guess as long as he isnt doing it all day and night.  Thays a good suggestion I will tell him about recording . I do all the oral stuff and like whatever he wsnt to try so idk what he wants ugh ican never win ha iguess it doesnt matter how much I do or dont do :/

[babyberry000]

My husband doesn't watch porn, we are Christians and in the Bible it says if you lust for another you are already committing adultery in your heart. So it is cheating and in our pre martial counseling they discuss the repercussions of watching it, which is most of the problems being discussed,
An easy solution, my husband recorded videos of me and of us together to watch when he masturbates and has not caused one issue, why don't your ladys suggest this to you're men,   ask them if instead they can record you and watch it instead.  

[PonsGirl]

I caught my hubby watching it on the phone. I just teased him I was like," college sluts huh?" I was like keep in it classy I see. Just poke fun haha. Guys will be guys.

[JustineBreOnna]

One of my exes was addicted to porn..like we would do it multiple times a day and he would still watch it. I learned to either try and get his attention away from it by doing something naughty or just simply asking him if there was anything I could try from today's set of porn....it spiced things up and he got to the point where he never watched it.

[Melsbby13]

My man does and it doesn't bother me lol Cuz he is still pleasing me all the time.i think he just likes to watch what I won't do...... CTFU! like oral will only go so far for me... and ino he loves that stuff so go head watch them lol Cuz I'm not doing all that extra stuff!

[mcrissa]

Yea it is unattractive to me too its like ugh :/. Om going to try an not to worry so mucj about it thanks :) its jusy frustrating being pregnant and then this its like porn is fake theyre getting paid to be over the top haha. But yea iguess of hes not cheating its not that bad