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So my bd and I just had a huge argument and I got a lil violent...im 13 weeks pregnant..I have no pains after the fact but a slight headache and a lil shoulder pain...with just maybe of bit of chest pain..not unbearable tho...could I be at risk for a miscarriage ..???
You can get mad and frustrated but you cant blame hormones for your actions. Thats a choice you made and personally I think you should learn to communicate better not for yourself but also your baby. He or she should never have to witness that from a parent. They learn from a young age and you have to set an example and being violent is not the way to go.
It's hard to think before you act sometimes When you're mad, and pregnant, but really try to start talking it out about how u feel & not letting it all build up inside, that's dangerous. Lol there was actually a pregnant lady that got shot in the stomach today over an argument that started over social media, her n her baby are in surgery now. I mentioned that to say, just because we're pregnant doesn't mean we have a force field around us & unfortunate things can still happen. I have to remind myself to calm down for my kids sake. No argument is ever worth it. I'm sure you're not as risk for miscarriage, but try to take it easy hun. Best of luck to you
Two weeks ago I was brutely assaulted by my husband. I wasn't able to keep anything for a week and was constantly in and out of the ER. No argument should get physical under any circumstances. It's not worth someone's life over a few moments of anger.
It's hard to think before you act sometimes When you're mad, and pregnant, but really try to start talking it out about how u feel & not letting it all build up inside, that's dangerous. Lol there was actually a pregnant lady that got shot in the stomach today over an argument that started over social media, her n her baby are in surgery now. I mentioned that to say, just because we're pregnant doesn't mean we have a force field around us & unfortunate things can still happen. I have to remind myself to calm down for my kids sake. No argument is ever worth it. I'm sure you're not as risk for miscarriage, but try to take it easy hun. Best of luck to you
I was crazy when I was pregnant with my son. Once I came home after being gone a week and there were empty boxes of beer and full ashtrays all over my house. I actually threw a lamp at the dads head and I didn't feel bad at all when it hit him. I guess it was hormones or some pregnancy thing cuz ive never so much as raised my voice in an angry tone around my son after he was born.
Yeah.. same here lol.. I try and tryyy to hold it in for my baby.. but damn.. sometimes I just lose control on my bd..
Lol sms92 ikr...im the crazy one in the relationship...I know the baby be pissed as hell at me for spazzing out..but its only because I hold so much in at a time then I just explode....sometimes I have trouble saying whats on my mind....but thanksfor the comments ladies
Not likely but be smart. You are pregnant With a baby. If hes vviolent toward u and u allow it to continue then u allow the risk. Id ur violent then that also jeopardizes baby. Be careful momma
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