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Relationship Decisions (Expert Forum)
Potential Relationship
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Psychotherapy of Individuals and Couples; relationship decisions; divorce counseling
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Potential Relationship
by sunscreen_gr, Oct 06, 2009 05:23AM
Dear all,
I am 31 and live in Athens, Greece. I met with a girl (she is 30) during my vacation (mid Aug). We did not have the chance to meet for a fortnight or so though the communication was fluent. Then we went out for dinner (it was awesome) and two days later with her friends and her borther for drinks. And then silence, I tried to communcate though she was somewhat distant. She had some sporadic communication signs from me ... Then the communication became fluent again! Went out (again with her friends and brother with her initiation) last Sat (04/10). Text her on Sun for thanks.
Well these above are facts. I am a little bit confused... I assume that she is either sepparated lately or she is in a relationship...
I really need to find out whether she is willing to be in a relationship or not. I think she had her time to think, almost 2 months... And she knows that I need a relationship with her, I show it to her indirectly.
How should I react? Should I wait for a while with same attitude or should I clear things up?
Thanks in advance,
Sun
I am 31 and live in Athens, Greece. I met with a girl (she is 30) during my vacation (mid Aug). We did not have the chance to meet for a fortnight or so though the communication was fluent. Then we went out for dinner (it was awesome) and two days later with her friends and her borther for drinks. And then silence, I tried to communcate though she was somewhat distant. She had some sporadic communication signs from me ... Then the communication became fluent again! Went out (again with her friends and brother with her initiation) last Sat (04/10). Text her on Sun for thanks.
Well these above are facts. I am a little bit confused... I assume that she is either sepparated lately or she is in a relationship...
I really need to find out whether she is willing to be in a relationship or not. I think she had her time to think, almost 2 months... And she knows that I need a relationship with her, I show it to her indirectly.
How should I react? Should I wait for a while with same attitude or should I clear things up?
Thanks in advance,
Sun
Doctor's Answer
by Richard Pomerance, Ph.D, Oct 06, 2009 09:35AM
, Oct 06, 2009 09:35AM
Dear Sun,
You've posted to the community, with several responses. This is the expert forum. Please let me know if you have a particular question not answered by the community.
Sincerely,
Dr. P.
You've posted to the community, with several responses. This is the expert forum. Please let me know if you have a particular question not answered by the community.
Sincerely,
Dr. P.
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I would like to thank you for the reply. The community is more than helpful so at the moment your guidance can be directed to others.
Sincerely yours,
Sun