My boyfriend and I have been together since March 2010. In the beginning, our sex life was great; we would make love more than once a day, and he was very sexual with me. I understand that this is normal in the begininng, but one thing that always concerned me is something that has gotten worse. He takes forever to ejaculate, and sometimes doesn't ejaculate at all. At first, I didn;t get too worried, he told me that he has always had this issue, and doesn't have to ejaculate to have an orgasm. But now, it kind of makes me feel like I'm not doing things right. Don't get me wrong, he always makes sure I have an orgasm, and I have expressed to him that I want to make sure he gets just as much pleasure from sex as I do. He does ejaculate once in a while, but it is becoming more rare. We have tried different positions, oral sex, and other foreplay, and sometimes these work and sometimes they don't. He also says he masturbates quite a bit when we're not together. For example, he woke me up at 5:00 am, ready to go (this is normal for us), and after I had my orgasm he went soft and was done. I asked him if he felt ok, he said yes, and he enjoyed himself. We kissed and cuddled, and we then went back to sleep. Also, he doesn't really like to be on top, usually I'm on top or we're in a scissor type position. Sometimes I think he's a little lazy lol! Anyway, I don't want to pressure him too much about it, as I know this can be a sensitive subject. I'm just worried about him. What do you suggest? I am a very sexual person, and he's good with 2-3 times a week, I'm adventerous, he's a little more reserved. I just want him to be pleasured as much as he pleasures me. Thanks for your time!