ive been with my boyfriend for a year and a half! on our year anniversary he didnt even say happy anniversary all i got as a present was the big news that he had began to smoke marijuana again. i hate weed with a passion i dont see why people say it isnt harmful, it helps those who are ill but if your healthy it could be very harmful. i always tell him to stop and he refuses and he knows i really am NO fan of weed he always argues with me telling me it isnt a drug but to me it is! i love him dearly but what should i do i am so confussed it makes him act so much different and cold hearted with me and i've even seen the change with how he is with his mother i want to find a way to make him sop because i care about him but he back fires me and doesnt care of what i have to say , uuuh what should i do :(