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why do i lie to my husband
iam 27 married to 28 years old lovely man. i love him alot but i am always telling little lies to him.
sometimes they are about money matters that involve my family or sometimes about talking to a few friends that i have known since i was a child and he does not want me talking to.
sometimes they are about money matters that involve my family or sometimes about talking to a few friends that i have known since i was a child and he does not want me talking to.
MEDICAL PROFESSIONAL
Dear Cameotisha,
There could be many reasons, but if you in fact love him, and there are no flamboyant problems in the relationship, a leading contender is that you feel constrained or hemmed in by him.
Is he tight or overcontrolling with money? Is there a good reason he doesn't want you to be talking to those friends, or is he just of a controlling character? If it's the latter, your lying might be a way to express your anger, and possibly also create some space for yourself.
Perhaps see where your thinking goes about this, and get back to me if you'd like.
Sincerely,
Dr. P.
There could be many reasons, but if you in fact love him, and there are no flamboyant problems in the relationship, a leading contender is that you feel constrained or hemmed in by him.
Is he tight or overcontrolling with money? Is there a good reason he doesn't want you to be talking to those friends, or is he just of a controlling character? If it's the latter, your lying might be a way to express your anger, and possibly also create some space for yourself.
Perhaps see where your thinking goes about this, and get back to me if you'd like.
Sincerely,
Dr. P.
MEDICAL PROFESSIONAL
See separate response.
Dr. P.
Dr. P.
thank you that is helpful.
one particular friend is male, i have not seen him for over 20 years , but we started talking about 2 years ago, i have not met him and neither has my husband. i recently asked this guy for a loan for my family, and this angered my husband alot.he says i donot respect him.
one particular friend is male, i have not seen him for over 20 years , but we started talking about 2 years ago, i have not met him and neither has my husband. i recently asked this guy for a loan for my family, and this angered my husband alot.he says i donot respect him.
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