29 weeks and my fiancé cheated what do I do?

[quinniemouse]

I just found out 2 weeks ago that he's been talking to another girl and even made plans to bring her to our home while I was away for a weekend at my parents. The other women was the one who told me everything and she showed me all the message and we made plans for the next weekend to actually catch him with her but I couldn't keep it to myself. I told him I knew everything and he didn't deny it. I want to leave so bad but have no where to go and I have mixed feelings about the entire situation but he's acting ridiculously nice to me and I know it's because of the guilt he feels... I feel like dying... I don't know how to handle this..

[michaelamarie_95]

Sounds to me like he got u right were he wanted u honey. U quit ur job and he made u completely dependant on him. I have seen this first hand. Hes a piece of crap amd u need to do everything u can to get away from him now! Before he affects your child and the rest of your life. He didnt even deny it and was gonna bring this woman to YOUR home! Talk to your parents. Im aure even though it would be hard they would make room for you and take care of there daughter. Im sure they dont want there kid being treated like that by anyone! I live in a 3 bedroom house with my parents my 2 little brothers my older sister and now soon to be a baby until me and my fiance get on our feet! Its doable.

[ariflowers]

I'm sure the state can help u with income meanwhile or unemployment I don't think you should just stay with him for money but yet we can all tell you to leave him & probably still stay & if u decide to stay don't street urself out not good for u or the baby /: stay strong for both sometimes there's downs in life but doesn't mean to give up do it for ur baby I'm sorry to hear this tears my heart apart specially since ur carrying his child keep ur re head up mama

[Bellaamomma]

Try and hurry apply for dshs food stamps and go down there and tell them your homeless and they will help you. I am so sorry but if that was me I would beg friends or something to just stay for now till you can figure something out. But he's wrong so in the wrong so sleep with another girl where he got you pregnant. Don't downgrade yourself for anything less then what you deserve. I would punch him in the face if we lived in the same state.

[quinniemouse]

Thank you everyone. My only problem is I was working 2 really good jobs until I was 4 months pregnant because we decided I wasn't going to work because he wanted to support us and he has a really good job. I can't stay with my parents because they have a full house and dealing with their own issues. He pays for everything now and have no money or income of my own. I don't know what to do we were so happy up until a couple weeks ago when I just started having this really bad feeling that would make me sick to my stomach and then she told me everything.

[karianderson0922]

Leave him. No one deserves that.

[DanitzasMama]

Well sad to say if he's looking for another women it ment that he didn't even want u in the 1 st place and that u just got prego. N that's y he is withu. But that's crossing the line aboiy how he was go into bring someone to UR OWN home imagine on ur bed or wherever hell no! Leave his ***

[squibb12]

I think you should throw him out show him you wont stand for it if he loves you he will do anything to get you back but you need the space away from him to decide of you want him back xx

[Bellaamomma]

Yeah girl, I am terribly sorry you are going through this. But he didn't deny it that means he does not care for you or his child you carrying you can do much better then that. Your parents won't let you stay with them until you can get on your own. There are plenty of recourses that will help you especially the state. But you cannot put yourself through that and give yourself that much stress with the baby. He's a piece of s hit and I am sorry he did that to you. But it's time you show him even pregnant you can do better then him!!

[elva21]

I would go ahead and leave him make him see what hes losing ! If he truly loves you he'll do the impossible to get you back

[momtoscarlett]

Leave him, he wanted to bring her to your place and would of probably slept with her in your bed. Thats not loyalty at all. Everyone makes mistakes but really for him not to care to atleast take her somewhere else other than your home? That shows how much he loves you. I know its hard for you but really you have to think more of yourself you little baby loves you and i wish you the best. I would tear my boyfriend's **** off if i found out something like this. Im sorry your so heart broken.

[LadyBeeley]

Staying with him tells him you are okay with him cheating any time he feels like it as long as he acts nice after you catch him every time. And you teach your child it's perfectly okay too. As long as the cheating party is "sorry". Personally, I only need someone to tell me once they think they can do better than me. I don't need to be shown how poorly they think of me or how little they respect me (or the child im carrying for them) over and over.

[TeenMomma2Be]

yeah your better of leaving.....itll be hard No doubt but if u stay he will think its ok to do it again......an if he really wants to cheat hes not worth it..no guy is...good luck !

[AdylinsMommy101214]

If you stay with him he's going to do it again..