3 year relationship.....GOING DOWN THE DRAIN.

[nicolejanelle]

I'm 20 years old and so is my boyfriend; we have been together for 3 years now and our sex life has always been great but it's going down the hill fast. It's my fault I have no desire for sex....making out....anything intimate. I don't know if it's my birth control or if it's something else. I work a full time job and we work opposite shifts so we don't get a lot of time together and when we happen to have time together were busy doing things that I get so tired. Today we got into a huge fight and he told me that I should just leave because he feels like that I don't love him anymore....we haven't had sex in months....I don't know what to do....I love him I really do. HELP ME SOMEONE. I don't know how to get in the mood to have sex or so much even make out.


HELP
Were so cute.....haha I don't want it to end this way.

[RockRose]

I think it could very possibly be the pill.

It zapped my sex drive to ZERO,  which is unusual for me.  I didn't even want to be touched in a nonsexual way,  I just wanted no contact at all.  Off the pill,  I'm normal.  

Can you use a non hormone type of birth control?

[cheshchesh819]

sometimes we just forget what we have until we loss it,we take it for granted that it will always be there,every relationshp goes through rough patches and only you and your boyfriend can work thngs out,you both need to make more time for yourselves and each other,i know you both have work commitments,but when you do have the spare time you need to spend a bit of it together,make a meal sit down together,reaqante yourselfs talk laugh,the sexual desire is probaly gone down hill through tiredness and stress,money isnt everything,having someone too share your life with is much more fun,i wish you luck.