I have been seeing this man for the last 7 years, 7 mos., on July 4th, (the same day 8-9 years ago his ex-wife split on him) I was told that he needed me to move out, and to show he wasnt' being an ***, he was giving me the old C-Class RV to live in since I had no where to go. He has a 14 year old son who has made his/our life hell for the last 5 years, and an 18 year old who moved out the day b4 she turned 18 saying "i'm 18 I can do anything I want", so she moved in with her boyfriend at Fort Polk, became engaged on 2-14-11 and was married on 5-28-11, which at one hour before the wedding rehersal i was told not to come to any of the wedding activities....
We have had struggles with his kids because I would see things that he did not or maybe he was ignoring and then try to help him handle a situation...
His daughter has to move back home cause, as I suggested to them in March, She will not be able to leave Fort Polk and go with her husband to Germany where he will begin his 6 year re-enlistment. She does not want me in the house with her father and is very controlling and manipulative, as with he brother who is very distructive.
I don't know how to even begin to recover from this loss.
ok, so he was quite wonderful in the bedroom, which made me go every extra step to please him....and he always told me there wasnt' anything else he could want for as for as exceeding his want and desires and needs from a woman..
I have helped him out financially, and helped with many other things in the house and everywhere else,
I felt like something was wrong when he didn't give me anything for Nurse's week and Mother's day, and such, but still in May, b4 the wedding, I had suggested moving out during the summer and getting a second place to help relieve some of the stress of his son, then he & I would have our own "getaway", but he discouraged it, so I thought everything was going to move on along, and maybe his son would grow up once he started ASH this Fall, but no.....
He said, "I don't see myself persuing a relationship again with you"...my heart crumbled... again...even more........
He has helped me with several of the problems with the RV I have run into, but keeps distant...
He is a warm, caring person when his kids aren't around but puts on a "tough-mean-non-caring" attitude when they are present....
What to do....