When I was a little girl I was sexually molested by my grandfather who would pinch and play with my nipples while I sat on his lap, so now as an adult, I can not stand to have them touched, let alone sucked on. Needless to say, this causes a lot of friction between me and my fiancee, who loves breasts. We have been together for 10 years, and it has always been an issue. I guess he thinks I'll just get over it some day. My question is, is there some way I can get over this? When they are touched, my instinct is to swat away whatever it is that is touching them. I have to dig my nails into my leg to distract myself in order to allow my fiancee to suck on my nipples. I have explained this all to him, so he is aware of the reason; he just thinks I should get over it already and move on, but every time I feel anything touch my nipples I want to hit someone. The only time it is even close to okay is when I am extremely aroused and/or horny.