My boyfriend takes a very long time to ejaculate.. (not like 30-45 mins, I mean like more than 2 hours. I've actually had to tell him I was too worn out to go on and he could tell way before I said anything.) But he has yet to ejaculate while being with me. He's in the military so we rarely see each other except when he can take a weekend to come home. I was hoping some one here could give me any tips on either how to help him get off faster or something.. I've tried oral and manual stimulation when I've gotten tired but have had no luck..
Any advise on what I (or he) could do to help solve this problem?
No he doesn't... he usually doesn't do anything (manually or else) for at least a week or two before he sees me... This is partly why it worries me, but he says this is how he's always been and he's also too embarrassed to go to the doctors...
well, he really should go see a doc to make sure he doesn't have anything wrong. This is not normal, and he could have something really wrong. He can go see a urologist that is a male, these are the docs that perform vecectomys so they see this stuff all the time.
here is something I found on the net regarding this.
Inhibited ejaculation is essentially the opposite of premature ejaculation - ejaculation takes a long time or does not happen at all. If a man can ejaculate after prolonged stimulation he suffers from retarded ejaculation, if he can not ejaculate at all he suffers from anejaculation. Often the man can ejaculate normally in some situations (solo masturbation, or manual or oral sex from his wife) but not in others (usually intercourse). Once thought to be very rare, recent studies have suggested that from 5% to 10% of men experience some level of inhibited ejaculation at some time
Copyright 1994-2016 MedHelp International. All rights reserved.
MedHelp is a division of Aptus Health.
This site complies with the HONcode standard for trustworthy health information.
The Content on this Site is presented in a summary fashion, and is intended to be used for educational and entertainment purposes only. It is not intended to be and should not be interpreted as medical advice or a diagnosis of any health or fitness problem, condition or disease; or a recommendation for a specific test, doctor, care provider, procedure, treatment plan, product, or course of action. Med Help International, Inc. is not a medical or healthcare provider and your use of this Site does not create a doctor / patient relationship. We disclaim all responsibility for the professional qualifications and licensing of, and services provided by, any physician or other health providers posting on or otherwise referred to on this Site and/or any Third Party Site. Never disregard the medical advice of your physician or health professional, or delay in seeking such advice, because of something you read on this Site. We offer this Site AS IS and without any warranties. By using this Site you agree to the following Terms and Conditions. If you think you may have a medical emergency, call your physician or 911 immediately.