My 3 year old son is living breathing proof that a child can be conceived when tubes are tied! I had my tubes tied after having my daughter, and 3 months later I found out I was pregnant again. There isn't one single birth control out there that is 100% effective unfortunately. I would still suggest wearing condoms to protect yourself from STD's and unplanned pregnancy unless you are in an exclusive relationship with one person.
As for why the condoms are breaking, they could be the wrong size, or maybe cheaply made. Maybe check into a different brand.
No one can tell you not to use a condom that is up to you and you should talk to your gf about it.
No one can tell you not to use a condom that is up to you and you should talk to your gf about it.
Yes as of right now I am the only partner. But, she has been with others.
if you're positive you are her only lover then go for it. if she ends up pregnant because her surgeries weren't done properly or if she's lying and you're not her only partner then.....you know.
good luck.
I'm not sure if It was put on properly I let her do it. Can someone please answer my main question. Since it did break and for those few seconds I was inside, does it really mater if I use one anymore? If she had something (which she does not) I would have already got it. And plus she can not get prego due to tubes tide and another operation that starts with an "A" .plus I trust her and me and her have an understanding that were only each others partners. I understand it is my decision and a big one... but I want to be safe and I'm asking if there is any chance I could get something?
You can't use regular oil to lubricate a condom as it will break the material down. Use a proper lubricant like Astroglide if needed.
Are you sure your putting it on right?
My girlfriend and me have only ever had one condom break on us (It was a Durex Featherlight, Red coloured one) we believe this happened because there wasnt enough room at the tip of the penis so when i ejaculated my little swimmers escaped :P
Just make sure your putting it on right and that she is wet enough (Use lube if shes not)
And in the end its up to you two if you wish to use condoms.... but id say wear one to be on the safe side :)
Did you leave room at the top of the condom? Make sure you are putting it on right.
Oww andshe was do wet there was a puddle, so I don't think it was cause she was dry. But my main question is if she has no sexual transmited and I have none. Is it safe to not use a condom?
Ok, could the fact that some oil was used break down the condom? I am a magnum size and I fell it up all the way. I am being honest.
women have gotten pregnant even though their tubes have been tied.
use a condom. you might be getting the wrong size. she may be to dry and the friction is causing it to break...there are different reasons why the condom is breaking. maybe it's the brand. if you're using a cheaper brand it might be made of cheaper material.
Tubes tied and some other thing it starts with a A
how does she know she can't have kids? when i was 18 my docs told me i'd never be able to have children. guess what....they were wrong. i now have beautiful 8 month old twin boys.