Trying to conceive is emotionally draining. It can consume us and possess us and rob us of life in the present. Been there. So, your husband does not seem to be wanting to work as hard on it as you. I get that it is hard for men as a semen analysis is kind of embarrassing depicted in movies as this gross room with old porno's and wrinkled play boy mags in it . . . kind of awkward. But none the less, we women who want our baby would move mountains to make it happen. Have you tried to have a heart to heart with him? Not asking him to go do the test but opening up a conversation and asking him how he really feels about this? That you notice he hasn't done the test and you are wondering what the real reason is. that you want to know how he feels about continuing the trying to conceive journey. And then do your very very best to REALLY listen and hear him. He may not say what you want. He may have decided that he doesn't want to feel like his life is in limbo any longer trying to have a baby or doesn't want to go to extra lengths to make it happen and is overall, content the way things are, etc. It will be hard to hear if this is the case but better to understand where he is coming from and respect it so you can figure things out together. That is what I would do. good luck and let us know how it goes