Do you think he likes me?

[kcalla]

I have a huge crush on this guy in my bio class and i think he might like me too but i don't know. He's rather friendly to most people (smiling, joking, etc.) so it probably isn't anything special that he's nice to me and smiles at me in the hallway...but he told me that i'm a deep thinker and he wants to see more of my personality. And if i start a conversation he'll keep it going... usually for longer than it needed to go. What do you think? Does he like me? What can I do to make him like me more? lol

[heatherlynn22]

didn't you just post about wanting to be with your teacher? which guy do you like?

[ziggysgrl0724]

Heather- she IS talking about her teacher.  In her other post she said her teacher tells her she is a deep thinker and wants to see more of her personality.

Ummmm...no one is going to tell you how to make your teacher have the hots for you.  it is wrong.  You have been told this many times.  if you really really like him, then like him enough to leave him alone.  If you follow through with this, you could ruin his life.  is that what you want?

[heatherlynn22]

i didn't even connect that. lol.

like it was said in your other two posts about your teacher, teachers are nice. they try to help students either come out of their shells if they're shy or like talking to them. and as i previously stated i had male teachers tell me i was a deep thinker, great girl, had an awesome personality, etc etc etc.....that doesn't mean he's hitting on you or suggesting a relationship. and again if you pursue the matter with him prior to graduation he WILL get into a lot of trouble. you've never heard the stories on the news about teachers who go to jail for having inappropriate relationships with their students?? yeah....5-10 years (if they're lucky) and they're teaching license is revoked. so it completely ruins their lives and they wasted all that time in college for nothing. and do you even know if he's single? how do you know he doesn't have a gf, fiance (or if he wears his wedding ring) a wife and kids?

[momagain59]

This reminds me of when I was a Corrections Officer, I would always try to say positive things to the inmates to encourage them to go another direction in life and every once in awhile, one would take it the wrong way. They would think that I was interested in them when I was in no way interested and it didn't take me long to tell them. Some people are very needy and see any kind of interaction as someone that wants them. If he is interested, he is wrong; he should be there to teach only. Have you ever thought about therapy to help you choose healthy relationships? Do not let a teacher or an authority figure take advantage of you. Maybe you do not feel this way about it now but you will later because it would be wrong for him to be with you, even if you want to.

[sweetpea03]

He's only being friendly, so I wouldn't read into it like that. Plus he's your teacher and you really shouldn't go there. A lot of girls have a crush on the 'hot teacher', but you don't actually pursue them. Trust me, you don't want to put yourself in that situation. Look for a guy in your grade level. I know a lot of them are immature, but I'm sure there are some great guys. Just keep your eyes open.

[kcalla]

haha! i wish. you should see what i have to choose from... it's sad, really.

[kcalla]

besides, i'm only wondering. i wouldn't even know how to act on it if i wanted to, so don't worry.

[Lucey12]

Wow, Just how many posts do have about this teacher??
Him saying he wants to see more of your personality, is probably referring to work wise, he is just seeing book work, the same stuff he sees in a text book. He wants to see your logic of it all. Im not meaning to put you down or anything but seriously, its jsut a little crush that you should keep to yourself. If it makes you feel good keep it there. If you make it a huge thing then soon, everyone will know,a dn if your wanting somoene else at school to know so work will spread and get to him, that just going tomake you look like a goof, if you want him to know that bad, tell him, That will be an easier way of finding out. Unless you like all the drama and Thats why your doing it.

[jessih]

maybe he is trying to draw you out more. are you shy? any good teacher would help people be more themselves in their environment at school...at least, I would.