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Does this mean anything from a guy?

Recently I was eating in a sub shop and as I was finishing my dinner, one of the cooks from back came out near me to eat his dinner. He sat one table away, facing away from me, but seemed on edge, nervous. He was pacing back and forth to the front cashier to say something to her, then back to his seat to take a bite. He finished in 5 mins. I saw that he had looked at me right before he had sat down to eat, but me being shy I looked down. So I had finished too, an was just watching the tv above me, when a few mins later he came near the tv and (no one else was in restaurant now) turned it toward me more, looking over at me questioningly , like 'is this ok?' I nodded and said, 'Thanks! That is fine.' He muttered something like, 'wasn't sure if it could be seen'  (even though I could see it fine)... then he walked back to the back again. I had to leave after that but I thought he was cute and also cute that he did that. Only thing is I am unsure if he was just being kind, or trying to talk to me or not. I can never tell ... what do you think? I'm 'thinking' of returning soon just to smile or something or say hi, but I don't want to seem a fool.
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Please, do go back and eat there, regularly if you can to see if this might be something. I think that it could very well be that he used adjusting the tv as an excuse for a first contact. Try to go back at the same time, if this was his dinner break, he may again sit near you (in an empty restaurant) and may try to talk to you. Patience is the key. I'll send vibes that you two get together for a first date. Then we can be here to talk to you about what goes on. It' helps to be able to talk about new relationships. Nothing has to be going wrong, it's just nice to have people aware of how you are. Can't wait to hear if anything comes of this. New love and relationships are so comforting to hear of. Good luck. I bet you have a beautiful smile, let him know by your smile that you think he's cute.If he strikes up a conversation, tell him you thought it was sweet he moved the tv for you. Have a plan in mind, about suggesting a get together, (it's okay for a girl to ask). Think about how you can fit him in to your personal life, and just go for it, and ask him to go out. Good luck. We'll be waiting to hear how it goes.
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Thanks Night! I appreciate your kind response. :) I really did feel that he perhaps was trying to get my attention, b/c I was the only one there, and the t.v. was fine how it was Lol. There was no need to adjust it yet he did, and looked to me how it was for me. I thought it so cute. I also sent you a personal Message Night, I really thank you!
You're very welcome. Please remember that this guy can feel exactly as you do, that he is shy, and that what he did do could have been a really big thing for him. Go and smile and perhaps make a friends. Many couples start just this way. A smile and a bit of conversation is the first step in a thousand to come. Good luck and let us know the play by play. Go back.,, strike while the iron is hot. If you can go back the same time every week, then he can start to count on seeing you. You can even ask him when you do talk, when do you work.? it's nice to see your face when i come in. Good fortunes favour the Brave.
Thanks so much for the message. It always brightens my day to see a private message from my friends here at Medhelp.
13167 tn?1327194124
If it's a sandwich shop,  you wouldn't look foolish going there and getting a sandwich and eating it.  

If you are attracted to him,  just go and get another sandwich.  This doesn't sound really like all that much of a conversation or flirtation with you,  but who knows,  maybe he's just horribly shy and can't move forward.

Best wishes.  
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The only indication I thought it 'might' be a try to talk with me was b/c I was the only one in the place when he turned it to me, and also I could see it just fine the way it was. BUT again lol, it might have been just a kindness. Thx RockRose!! I might just go back in b/c he was cute and the gesture was too ... I'm just so shy LOL. Maybe I'll at least smile this time :)
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