Dont know what to do

[mmh22]

I Am 23 and I have been with my boyfriend for two years now. When we first met I enjoyed haveing sex and our relationship was great. I've never liked having sex alot. I'm good if we have it once or twice a wweek. But my bf wants it all the time. Hes constantly touching me in public and always talking about sex. He gets really upset and starts telling me that he is becoming I'll due to no sex. It's really frustrating. I really want to make him happy but I find sex painful at times and he wants it like three times a day , almost every day. And when we I do give him sex, it's not enough and he always says he's bored. I don't want him to leave me but I don't know what to do.

-Sorry it's so long.

[Londres70]

No match............give him the boot.

3X/day...............geesh.

[specialmom]

I totally agree that you two do not make a great match.  Sexual compatibility is an important aspect to the longevity of a relationship.  I know it is hard to think of it this way but the two of you will always have conflict in this area of the relationship and if it is really important to either of you, it won't work.  I'm sorry.  good luck

[mmh22]

Because he likes to do it so much it gets painful at times. He also likes to do positions that are uncomfortable.
Vance2335

[Vance2335]

Why does sex hurt at times?

[TTinKKerBBell]

I agree this is not a match

He wants sex "3x/day, almost every day"
You: "once or twice a week"

This is a Very Big Issue and will not 'resolve' with time -  the difference in libido is SO great. someone would have to 'compromise' a lot - and that will eventually breed resentment

[RockRose]

I don't think the two of you are a match.

When you said when you have sex he doesn't even like it and he says the sex is boring,  this just seems hopeless.

If he were thrilled when you two had sex, I'd say well give him sex then - but even that doesn't work.

Best wishes.