I think you need to treat your anxiety before we can answer any more questions for you. These questions all seem a result of your emotional state of overthinking and anxiety. good luck
Hi there. We've talked in previous posts that much of your concerns within your relationship are your own anxiety driven issues. Do you think that could play a role here?
Not every woman bleeds upon the hymen breaking. And I'm not sure why she has a month of bleeding. Hormonal issues?
You mentioned that she is pregnant now. When were you married?
It is very unusual for bleeding to continue 1 month. I urge she consult a doctor.
I do not think day after bleeding indicates certainty that she was a virgin but may indicate the start of her period (perhaps she can confirm her period has started?).
Bleeding on first time intercourse with virgins happens sometimes, perhaps more than half the time, but absolutely does not happen all the time. Examining the hymen before intercourse is the only sure way of knowing if it is intact.
The hymen greatly varies in size and thickness amongst women. So I surmise that a fragile, thin hymen is unlikely to bleed when broken. A heavy, thick hymen might bleed a lot (though, I think you would be not be unaware of encountering a barrier of such robust character and/or it might need a doctor's assistance to open it up).
This is obviously cultural-related.
No one here can confirm if your wife was a virgin or not. A physician maybe could of confirmed this prior to your "first night," however, there is no way for anyone to confirm this now.
You will just have to trust that she was at this point.