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[lils25]

Ok Hi all. I was with my boyfriend for 2 years. We had some issues as i felthe didnt make enough effort for me and i also have an awful temper and broke up with him alot when i wasin a mood.I broke up with him in March and as always wanted to get back together but he said he couldnt be with me as he was fed up looking after me. We always kept in touch though and have been split up 6 months now. Thankfully i finally took a look atmyself and got help for my anger and have really calmed down and am a better person. He always said he didnt wanna meet up though as it was too hard for him. Recently we decided to go to a concert togther and had a great night, he told me he still loved me when he was leaving and i told him i still loved him too. Then he ignored me for 2 weeks and go tback in touch .We met up again and ended up sleeping together and nothing again. I decided to let it go but he kept texting me askking why i wouldnt reply back and got in touch again.We both started dating other people but he still tells me all the time that he doesnt think he will ever get over me and that no one will ever have him the way i did. I dont know what he is thinking, heknows i want to be together and he seems so sad when he talks about us. He also told me he feels so safe around me and that he wishes we could be together but he wont get back with me. Is he using me?

[specialmom]

I agree.  It does appear he is using you.  I'd cut ties and move on so you can find someone available to 'really' be with the new and improved you.  good luck

[tbabi20]

I would say that it appears like he is using you. I think he likes the idea of having you around as a back up plan and that isn't fair to you. I think he tells you those sweet words to keep you there and in this state of anticipation. Not being in a relationship doesn't tie him to anything and allows him to have his fun without you being attached.

I'm sorry your being strung along. I would keep him at a distance. Someone who claims to love you wouldn't want you sometimes. Move on...

Hope my advice helped..