Fiancee visiting massage parlors on business trips?

[TaneshaXD]

Hello i am here for some advice/and or opinions on whether i am wrong or not. I am 21 years old my fiancee is 27. I recently found out that most men get "happy ending" massages while they are on business trips or even at home. Is this true? i think he is getting them as well because he left his laptop opened the last time he came back home and i saw a message on his private Facebook that said " You know how that Asian girl told me to strip naked and touched my genitals the other day, do you think that's cheating? i don't think there is anything wrong with it  "  i was absolutely pissed when i read that i mean really? is it cheating? what kind of question is that??? how can't he tell if it is cheating or not? i have done some intense research on these places and i am soo jealous and angry for some reason, i can't believe how could he let a woman see him naked and let her touch him in such way. I mean if he would let other woman touch him naked i would be willing to break up with him but a handjob wow... i keep imagining  a woman messing with his ***** and i want to break up with him as soon as possible what's your opinion on this?

[TaneshaXD]

He was an shy idiot from the start, i am going to dump him.

[Londres70]

Totally agree with SM and Chima.

It was really idiotic of him to post what happened on facebook.  

[Chima7]

He sounds like kind of an idiot and if it were me I would be offended that he would think I was stupid enough to fall for such a stupid excuse and that would be the reason why I would dump him. I'm a lot smarter than that and so are you. Tell him you're not stupid and you see right through his lame attempts at lying and you're leaving. That's what I would do.

[Life360_Dave]

Dont get me wrong as not trying to justify anything. Men are a peculiar lot and sometimes need a wake up call to get them back on track.

[specialmom]

I don't think 'most' men do this and am not sure where you got that information from.  The guilty party?  

Break up.  He's a cheater who justifies it.  Find a man with strong values who adores you and would never hurt you like that.  

[Life360_Dave]

You might start of by asking him if you went to a male massage palour and the man gave you a happy ending, how would he feel and more over, ask him directly what would he do? Make him answer that question.