Ok, this is wierd, My sons mom who is supposedly my girlfriend since around 2011, well the last couple of years since 2013 actually, things were pretty normal, But then it suddenly got distant on her part, I would aske her to come hang out, and gradually it bacame less and less on her part, (this is not a high scholl age couple we are, both older 30ish) anyway, I have communicated with her about it, when my father passed away, I had a talk with her and funay asked her if she still felt for me the waybshe used to and wanted this to work, she said yes, so I was happy about that, but nothing has changed, I'm doing everything in my power to let her know how Unfeel about her, and she has even told me that we will be seeing eachother more, but she still ignores and avoids the questions when I bring up how I feel. I literally poured out my heart to her today about how I feel, told her that even if i breaks my herat I want to know where we stand, and again just completely pretended that I didn't say a word, and just asked about times Im going to have my son, now..she always did seem to have a hard time saying how she felt about me, but has even told me that even thoug she does not say it like I do, she feels the same way ( that was a while ago) she knows the peices are in front of her because I told her. Even if It shatters my heart, I told her I need to know...she told me not too long ago that something was wierd with her and just has no ambition to do stuff with anyone, but seems like its just me that the problem lies. Ive been in a slump myself but always made sure that I didnt push her away, but now that I can see the light out of my hard times, I even told her that...so I put it all on the line for her, told her exactly how I feel about her and would like for us to gwt back to us again, and if she had to break my heart that Im prepared, of course I dont want it to happen but I cant make her stay with me, Its a wierd situation and I feel I have the right to know what way she wants to go to see if we are on the same page or not, but I cant get an answer, I love this girl too much to just walk away, after all Im the one who wants it to work, so that is why I put the ball in her court, but she did nothing other than avoided the question, could it be that she just isnt sure, or she does feel that way and os just going through some strange spell? I wish I knew how to find out...that why im here asking now. If I think of any more details I will be sure to put them down, it really is a long story, and Im not good at explaing by typing. If someone could help...that would be great, I really love her and want to go back the way it should be if possible.