HELP ME PLZ

[plzhelpme2652]

Ok so heres how it starts ive been with this 1 girl for 2 years and thought i loved her until about 1 year after a year she became crazy lets just say that she has violent anger. are relationship ended when she wanted a break and i said fine then she said that she didnt really want a break and that she was high i stuck with saying its over...after being broken up for about 1 and a half months (her trying to call me nonstop) and she hits me with the news that she is pregnaut and has been for three months after i start tlkin to her and let her no i dont want a sriouse relationship with her im confused b/c i know for a fact that she is on the pill and has been b/c i used to be there when she would take it. i looked on the comp and it sais that she should be having nausa and morning sickness yet doesnt there is no darkening of the areola and really the only evidence i have of her pregnacy is that she told me she took 2 tests = positive. This girl has lied to me in the past about pregnacy and other things, when i wanted to break up with her befor she claimed that she would kill her self and could not live without me and belive me she was seriouse nonstop crying for like 3 hours. this girl even cracked my winshield on my car cuz i would not tlk to her in the car. if you could plz tell me wheather or not you think she is pregnaut or not cuz im only 18 and i dont want a kid at this time in my life.

[heatherlynn22]

nobody here can say yes she's pregnant or no she's not. if you don't believe her ask her to take a test while you're there, ask to go to the doctors appointments, ask to see sonogram pictures. if she refuses to do any of those chances are she's not pregnant. if she says yes to any of those chances are she is pregnant. it is possible for a woman to get pregnant even if she's on b/c. there are MANY women on this forum who've gotten pregnant using b/c AND condoms.

[mami1323]

What's with these posts all of the time lately?  So many young men are coming on here asking if their ex is lying about being pregnant.  Can there be so many vindictive young ladies out there?  Please make sure you are wearing condoms, even if she says she's on b/c.  The pill doesn't protect against STD's.

[imanaddict]

I agree mami! How many have we all responded to in the last week or 2? Wow!!

This girl sounds a little "off"! She broke your windshield? Not good! It IS possible to get pregnant while using forms of birth control, it happened to me. I had my tubes tied and got pregnant again. I found out I was preggers when my daughter was only 3 months old and my two youngest kids are one year and 18 days apart. So, it's definitely possible, BUT it sounds as if this girl is using the pregnancy excuse to pull you back into her life. I doubt she is, but of course there is no way for any of us to tell you. That is something you will have to find out on your own.

I wish you all the luck!