He Cheated, is she pregnant?

[Kelsababy89]

My boyfriend cheated on me from Jan 27th til about Feb 3rd, she said that she was due for a period on Feb 1st, but it has not come. What is the likely chance that she is pregnant with his baby? She has a boyfriend , and said they have been trying to conceive, but has issues with fertility. Do you think her probability of getting pregnant by my boyfriend is slim or great?

[specialmom]

Gosh, I'm sorry to hear about your boyfriend cheating on you!  That stinks and I'm sure leaves you wondering if this guy is worthy of you.  

If she ovulated late, then yes.  He could have impregnated her but she wouldn't know yet.  It would be very early.  Timing wise, I doubt he impregnated her.  If she turns up pregnant---- wouldn't she want the baby to be her boyfriend's?  Your boyfriend would just sit quietly tight and ask for a paternity test after she delivers if she shows up pregnant.  He doesn't have to do a single thing until then.  This was a brief sexual affair.  He doesn't really owe her anything unless there is a paternity test proving a child is his.  He WAS extremely foolish and irresponsible, that is for sure.  And I'd get a full STD screening if I were you.  

But I guess you have to decide if you still want to be with him knowing he cheated. I'm really sorry hon.  That hurts!

[Kelsababy89]

Thank you! Yes, I definitely plan on getting an STD screening ASAP. I just keep praying that my worst fears do NOT come true... I'm definitely hurt by the whole situation, but would be even more hurt if this possible baby happens... thank you for your input! I just think that if there is a "best time" for him to have done this, it would have been when he did, because I think it would be pretty difficult for her to get pregnant during that time, even without fertility issues, but almost impossible because she does.... She told me today that she took already took a pregnancy test and it came out negative....do you think we might be in the clear?

[RockRose]

Kelsa,  I don't know if you're pregnant or if you have children with this boyfriend,  but if both answers are "no" - I think your "worst fear" should be that you are pregnant right now.  

Don't hang on too tight to a failure -  I know your heart is breaking,  and you're really just hoping you can carry on this relationship with him as before,  but once a cheater always a cheater.  Especially when he did this multiple times and didn't even bother to use protection.

[Kelsababy89]

We do have one child together, she is 7. I am not worried that I am pregnant, I have an  IUD. I am worried that he got her pregnant though. My heart is broken, but time heals all wounds. Thanks for your input.

[Kelsababy89]

I guess I should throw in there that he did not pull out, any of the times they had sex.....