I have been dating this guy for 8 months, every aspect of our relationship is amazing, we've talked about marriage, the whole nine.. Everything is great except... He won't touch me down there with his hands and won't go down on me. He won't touch my breasts sexually either. I've playfully suggested doing those things would really turn me on and would help me be ready for sex.. He won't do it. His response to going down on me is 'Ew'. He's 30 years old. He has a foot and tickle fetish which I have learned to love and let him do his tickle thing before sex because that's his foreplay that he needs. I understand and let him do it every time. Even if I'm not ticklish, I FAKE it for him so he can get aroused. When I suggest he touch me down there to get me aroused, he avoids it at any cost. I have really good hygiene and keep things neat down there, I'm 25 and attractive and fit. So what's the problem?? I've tried talking about it with him and he said that if he got a flavored lube he'd be more likely to go down on me. It's been over a month and that's not happened yet. I thought if I stick things out, he'd change or maybe I'd learn to deal with it and it wouldn't bother me, but nothing's changed. I feel worse about myself to the point where I almost feel uncomfortable being naked around him, and I've contemplated having a fling with an old partner. I haven't because I know it's wrong and I don't want to bear the guilt of it. I need help/advice.. I'm really not sure. I'm just upset and confused. Everything else about our relationship is amazing and he's exactly the man I want to marry, except in the bedroom.. Please help.