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I'm about 20weeks and my mother wants me to move out she is not supportive of this situation at all and at the moment me and my bf cant afford to get an apartment and still get by. We havent even done any shopping for the baby and I am stuck I dont know what to do. Low income apartments have 1-3 years! Wait list and my mom wants me out now and his mom wants him to stay but doesnt even want to see me so I'm so stressed I dont know what next :'(

I'm in NC (bring getting that question alot)
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I pray God give you strength and help you with your situation and God to guide you in the direction you need to go and try and stay calm no stress
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Do they not have emergency housing ?? Im not from the states but here in Canada we have that for situations like yours.  Sorry to hear you have to go through that and I hope that everything works out for you.
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Very sad to hear your mother is not supporting you. Don't know which NC you mean but try websites which have rooms for rent or as above look at government help otherwise maybe worth trying a friend or other family memeber even if it is short term till you work it out. Try not stress about it as I'm sure something will work out.
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Right or go downtown n apply for assistance they will help u trust me n they give u money n find u a place to stay n help u pay ur rent u have to do ways best for u n he kid right now don't stress or worry about anyone else at this point focus on getting itself together Cuz at the end of the day ain't nobody got help u but u
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I'm 20 weeks on Monday and I'm planning to move out because here in the UK, I'd get helped out with money becauase I'm only 17...I'd say go to someone and ask for advice and if you're entitled to any money such as child tax credit (not sure if that's only in the UK) :]
Good luck and sorry to hear about your mum not accepting you being pregnant.
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Oh sweetie I'm sorry for ur situation, but if u 2 are working, why don't u move into a room, and then save up some money and get an apartment later, or u go to a shelter and he can go to his mother's house
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