Ive been married along time. 10years i feel like shes always lying and always has a bf on the side. She uses social media. I cant catch her cheating. Nor do i really want to. She does the whole blames me for whatever guilt she has. I know along time ago i was at the clinic with her and she was getting a check up. She gave me chlamydia at this point in time. But i know i saw a condition she had. I can never prove anything she is always quick to diffuse or distract any points or say im lying and trying to make her look bad.