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I love my Friend But he Started treating me badly !!
Hey every one , i have this friend that i kew for a long time , n a 2 years a go we started talking massively , n after a year he had a grl friend n didnt tell me abwt it , n then i found out that he is going to meet her parents n every thing n that they will be engaged ... wel then he came to me on facebook talking rabish saying that i'm no one to him i'm nothing but his friends ex girlfriend that's all n we stoped talking .
well 6 months a go we get in tuch n he told me that it wasn't him how said that on facebook , it was his Girlfriend ... n that she hates me n that she is jalous of me .. even that i never met her n never spoke to her ...
since then he cals me every day speak hours on the phone with me , well a month a go i finished my studies n the summer vacation n was looking for a summer job n helped me having one he works in a restaurant n got a job as a cachier .. ofcours i'm grateful for it .
Well we work together know , n since then he started acting differently with me as he doesn't know me or as i'm a total stranger , stopped calling me like before or talking to me like,before , n each time i speak with him he ignore as i'm talking with the wall , n each time i ask him why are you acting like this with me , he sais i'm acting normal nothing changed n every thing but whar he sais doesnt convince me ... there are something rong n weard ... n last night i at work , we were alowne , n i put a song that i like from a movie , n he liked it n he sais tat he liked it , i told him that i heard it a movie that really liked it's a friensh movie n they are acting in Algeria ... i didn't even finish the words n he sais stop talking you talk too much , i was choked ... n today he did something made go mad n delated him from facebook , he doesn't know yet that i delated him ... I was talking with him on facebook telling him something he saw all my msgs n didn't answer ... n after that our Boss called saying that she want's us to work on our dayoff n i responded no that i cant work today , so called him to tell him that they will call him too . n when he picked up n heard what i said , he sais is that all why you called as he is mad at me ... so i shouted at him n than we hang up the phone ...
- i Really tried to put this behinde me n ignore him as he does with me but i coudn't ... i can't i'm not that tipe of person , i'm a nice girl way tooo nice ,, i love y friends n it's not easy for me to treat them rong or to let them go or even to ignore them ...
well 6 months a go we get in tuch n he told me that it wasn't him how said that on facebook , it was his Girlfriend ... n that she hates me n that she is jalous of me .. even that i never met her n never spoke to her ...
since then he cals me every day speak hours on the phone with me , well a month a go i finished my studies n the summer vacation n was looking for a summer job n helped me having one he works in a restaurant n got a job as a cachier .. ofcours i'm grateful for it .
Well we work together know , n since then he started acting differently with me as he doesn't know me or as i'm a total stranger , stopped calling me like before or talking to me like,before , n each time i speak with him he ignore as i'm talking with the wall , n each time i ask him why are you acting like this with me , he sais i'm acting normal nothing changed n every thing but whar he sais doesnt convince me ... there are something rong n weard ... n last night i at work , we were alowne , n i put a song that i like from a movie , n he liked it n he sais tat he liked it , i told him that i heard it a movie that really liked it's a friensh movie n they are acting in Algeria ... i didn't even finish the words n he sais stop talking you talk too much , i was choked ... n today he did something made go mad n delated him from facebook , he doesn't know yet that i delated him ... I was talking with him on facebook telling him something he saw all my msgs n didn't answer ... n after that our Boss called saying that she want's us to work on our dayoff n i responded no that i cant work today , so called him to tell him that they will call him too . n when he picked up n heard what i said , he sais is that all why you called as he is mad at me ... so i shouted at him n than we hang up the phone ...
- i Really tried to put this behinde me n ignore him as he does with me but i coudn't ... i can't i'm not that tipe of person , i'm a nice girl way tooo nice ,, i love y friends n it's not easy for me to treat them rong or to let them go or even to ignore them ...
"Increase your interaction with your real friends and family..........people who you know care about YOU."
DITTO Londres's post above. I replied on your duplicate thread in the anxiety forum. This guy isn't a genuine friend....this is someone who, for whatever reason (not important), thrives on drama and nonsense. NO thank you. Of course you can remain cordial, if you work together...but distance yourself otherwise.
WE choose who we allow in our lives and who we allow to take up TIME out of our days. People should be picking their loved ones and friends as if they themselves were royalty. We all deserve to be treated well....that includes respect, compassion, empathy, caring, sharing, etc. Not just "love" or being able to have a laugh here or there.
That's why it's good to have acquaintances, and then REAL friends...people you would turn to if you needed support. This guy friend of yours doesn't fit into the "friend" category, and barely should make the cut as a casual acquaintance. Only because you work with him does it make sense to keep him in that group.
DITTO Londres's post above. I replied on your duplicate thread in the anxiety forum. This guy isn't a genuine friend....this is someone who, for whatever reason (not important), thrives on drama and nonsense. NO thank you. Of course you can remain cordial, if you work together...but distance yourself otherwise.
WE choose who we allow in our lives and who we allow to take up TIME out of our days. People should be picking their loved ones and friends as if they themselves were royalty. We all deserve to be treated well....that includes respect, compassion, empathy, caring, sharing, etc. Not just "love" or being able to have a laugh here or there.
That's why it's good to have acquaintances, and then REAL friends...people you would turn to if you needed support. This guy friend of yours doesn't fit into the "friend" category, and barely should make the cut as a casual acquaintance. Only because you work with him does it make sense to keep him in that group.
Manipulators tend to be charming and helpful in the beginning.......they are experts at that.
Increase your interaction with your real friends and family..........people who you know care about YOU.
Increase your interaction with your real friends and family..........people who you know care about YOU.
LON
it is not the same guy i dont miss friendship with other relationship ... the reason why i fpund it hurd to let go in the biginnig was bcz he never treated me that way . he was really nice before ... well n im a very faithful person i cant let go on my friends very easely ... well prooving that i do love my self n i cant accept any one treating me that way i decided to let go on him .. n why i shared this with you all was bcz i was hurt ..
it is not the same guy i dont miss friendship with other relationship ... the reason why i fpund it hurd to let go in the biginnig was bcz he never treated me that way . he was really nice before ... well n im a very faithful person i cant let go on my friends very easely ... well prooving that i do love my self n i cant accept any one treating me that way i decided to let go on him .. n why i shared this with you all was bcz i was hurt ..
thnk you for giving me ur opinion abwt this matter i really needed it .. n i'm actually started ignoring him n stoped beeing nice i only talk to him if its
Is this the same guy you posted about in March 2013?
You say you "love" your friend, well why don't you love yourself a bit more than your friend and not tolerate his unacceptable behavior? Why are you friends with someone who could care less about you? He is NO true friend.
Sounds like this guy loves manipulating people and situations and you should cut ties with him IMMEDIATELY. He definitely has issues.
You say you "love" your friend, well why don't you love yourself a bit more than your friend and not tolerate his unacceptable behavior? Why are you friends with someone who could care less about you? He is NO true friend.
Sounds like this guy loves manipulating people and situations and you should cut ties with him IMMEDIATELY. He definitely has issues.
It sounds like this guy has some kind of mental illness. He's got this Dr. Jekyll Mr. Hyde thing going on. I'm sure that he's like this with all of his associates, given the time to do so. I say associates, because this guy doesn't have any true friendships obviously, and the reason is because he cannot be trusted with a person's heart. You cannot trust him with your heart.
Be grateful for the job, and look for another job if you wish, so you don't have to work with him. Hopefully he'll leave the job, and leave you alone.
You must learn not to let others negativity define you. Some people are just miserable, and you've heard the saying Misery Loves Company? It sounds to me that he got you that job, because he likes having you around to harass. He seems to have proven that he likes to string along someone vulnerable enough to consider him a friend, so that he can abuse them. He has major issues, and you don't really know him, so stop calling him a friend. Make a point of meeting some new friends. People that are genuine and sincere in their relationships. And leave this A hole to himself.
If you were smart, you would just chalk it up to, "I guess i didn't know you like I thought I did" and work very hard at ignoring him. Don't let him use you anymore to abuse you with his silly games. De-friend him, ignore him and move on with your life. With friends like that, you don't need any enemies. right? Good riddance to Bad Rubbish.
Be grateful for the job, and look for another job if you wish, so you don't have to work with him. Hopefully he'll leave the job, and leave you alone.
You must learn not to let others negativity define you. Some people are just miserable, and you've heard the saying Misery Loves Company? It sounds to me that he got you that job, because he likes having you around to harass. He seems to have proven that he likes to string along someone vulnerable enough to consider him a friend, so that he can abuse them. He has major issues, and you don't really know him, so stop calling him a friend. Make a point of meeting some new friends. People that are genuine and sincere in their relationships. And leave this A hole to himself.
If you were smart, you would just chalk it up to, "I guess i didn't know you like I thought I did" and work very hard at ignoring him. Don't let him use you anymore to abuse you with his silly games. De-friend him, ignore him and move on with your life. With friends like that, you don't need any enemies. right? Good riddance to Bad Rubbish.
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