I never post drama but I need advice

[ash060115]

My bf and I have been together years- we have a house etc... we may as well be married!

Anyway.. we went to visit his mother who can be very obnoxious and .... well irritating!  
She was screaming at my bf because she found stuff belonging to him in her attic and was just being  rediculiouz and really loud.

I had a headache and our daughter (5) was hungry so I said to my boyfriend "can you please hurry? "
She got all angry etc and I camly said its just your being very loud and I feel unwell with a headache... she start screamin she could b loud etc.. I didn't redpond.

Eventually we left one hr later I get loads of messages full of abuse.. my boyfriend took my side as he knew his mother was wrong and I hadn't said anything rude back.

Then she done what has pushed me ti not speakto her... she told him to keep me away from her for good and that he should leave me.

My question is would you let her see the bby etc?  

She never babysat ever! And has made it clear we aren't welcome until I apologise. .. however I won't do that. What do I do?

[pixal_ember]

My sister in law is like that, except her problem stems more from jealousy. We used to be real good friends till she got on drugs and i got with her little brother. She has three of her own but can't even take care of them right. She's upset because her whole family is excited and gives me attention (she is the only girl out of three boys). Until she decides to.act right, i ain't even gonna show her the ultrasound pic tomorrow.

[ash060115]

Reneemarie I got the messages to my own phone telling me she hates me and using vile language to explain herself. .. we also have five yr old and due bby two in January.

Pixal we definitely don't need the drama.

Thank you guys for I feel a little less alone now ♡
Mite I add shes the only person not to congratulate us on our impending arrival! :/

[pixal_ember]

i wouldn't let her see the baby. for one, your family doesn't need that drama in y'alls life and two, by not wanting to see you she is pretty much rejecting your kid. maybe she'll come around one day.

[reneemariee]

My husband's mother hates me like I've read messages saying so. I know how you feel, I told him I don't want her around my kids. We have a five year old & the one I'm carrying now. I refuse to let her see my children. You're not in the wrong.