Is My Girlfiend Pregneant or Is It Natural?

[liamwalker2004]

hi

im not sure this is the right section but please i need relationship help. and very fast sadly.

iv had sex with my girlfriend, and i think she pregneant and this is our first time. we used a condom and made sure we were protected but her period was meant to be the other day and its really late now for it.

im not ready for a baby and please don't judge me im only 15.
please i dont know if its natural for her period to be late after sex or if she is pregneant. we dont want a test at this moment in time.

and i dont want to leave her as she is the one special person for me.

thanks if u read this and please help me

-liam-

[marra]

hi mate, they usually give the details out at school and have posters at your gp surgery .do a google search on family planning clinics and you can do a location search .even if she comes on still go and get some contraception free anyway and they will help you ! we are always here for any help you need along the way .if you cant find any search info ,try nhs direct on 08454647 . good luck mate x x x

[BearHitch]

I agree with pertykitty and mami that it is your girlfriend's choice of whether she keeps the baby and I would not recommend abortion.  It has devastating effects on women later in life and if she has big plans for her life, adoption should be her first choice then.  There are many couples out there who cannot have children, and would be more than happy to love and nurture your baby.  

[barn babe]

"we have family planning clinics here and they will test you free and give you condoms and maybe give her the pill. You dont need an appointment and you dont have to tell your parents."

Now that's a family planning policy I can get behind.  Thanks for posting this, marra.  Good luck to you and your girlfriend, Lima.

[liamwalker2004]

hey marra

how do i find out where the nearest clinic thing is?

[marra]

hi liam, i am uk too ! wow you got some debates going ,i dont think she is pregnant if you used contarception chances are she is late with stress of  gcse  coming up and stuff you mentioned too  . we have family planning clinics here and the will test you free and give you condoms and maybe give her the pill . you dont need an appointment and you dont have to tell your parents .good luck mate x x x

[liamwalker2004]

haha ok then il keep that in mind
but i dont want to be a teenage parent anyway


well thanks everyone for you help to this stage and i will definately post on here the results from the test and hopefully wont ask for anymore help

thanks so much for your help

and lets hope wen i next inform u on something its all clear and good