Is he really into Me?

Question

I've been dating this guy since may. We had a connection instantly. We clicked so well. We get along great. I know we just started dating but I think I'm starting to fall for him. He's very sweet, respectful and patient with me. we are compabitle in a lot of ways. we are both 25 yrs old. And been in love prior In the past. I tells me that he really likes me a lot and he is into me. be both want to take things slow and get to know eachother. he tells me he's not into games and he doesn't want to get hurt. I've been hurt in da past and I believe him and seen to trust him. He looks into my eyes and tells me that I'm so beautiful and he's so lucky to have me. He said I make him so happy and makes him feel so special like he has never felt before. He compliments everything about me from my hair, eyes, beauty marks on my face, my tan color, my height weight, everything. He never once tried to have sex with me. He says he wants to wait until we know eachother more. He's such a gentleman and so nice. He could just stare into my eyes and just daze and have a big smile on his face. We talk and text everyday throughout the day. We can be in the phone till 6am talking and wonder where the time went. We love spending time with eachother. I just want to know if I should slow down a bit because I'm falling in love. I wonder if he's falling in love with me. Do u all think that maybe he is by the way he treats me and the things he's saying to me? Or maybe he could be just saying it. I dpnt know I've been hurt before and don't want to get hurt again. Should I put my guard up or just trust in him and whatbhe says? Does it sound like he's really into me and falling in love???

sprungmami407 · Answer

Ok things have Been going real good between Me and him. He told me that's I'm the best thing that has ever happened to me. I think he's starting to fall in love with me. He stares into my eyes and have a big smile all the time. my heart melts when he does that. Sometimes I catch him looking at me with the corner of his eyes. He is always happy when he sees me and he always have a big smile. He holds my hand and stare into my eyes when we are out eating dinner. I'm falling in love with him. are those signs he's falling in love with me?

Judy246 · Answer

He sounds like a keeper and oh, heck you make him sound so nice that I'll take him (lol), in seriousness, put the past behind you, because if you don't take those old hurt feelings and put them away far, you will not be able to open your heart and give someone so good as Mr. Wonderful here a change. He sounds great, so go for and leave the past where it belongs, behind you. Hugs.

sprungmami407 · Answer

Thank u all. he hold me today that he told his mom about me and she is very happy that he met me and she wants to meet me. I'm guessing this is good that he told her about me since we just recently started dating in May

specialmom · Answer

I say good for you sprunmami!  I hope it works out.

sprungmami407 · Answer

Yes I met his friends. Actually my good friend And him were good friends but I didn't know he existed. I really feel like he is too good to be true that's why I'm iffy. He is a great guy though so I'm giving him a Chance and taking a risk.

RockRose · Answer

Have you met his friends?

SeriousSam · Answer

Are you sure your 25?  Have fun but you really didn't describe anything that wasn't courtesy, flirting, or hormones.

Be blessed,
Sam

specialmom · Answer

Well, I think this sounds great! He sounds sincere to me.  The thing about love is that it is always a risk to fall in love.  You can only hope that they feel the same way and that it will last and we are never hurt.  But there are no guarentees.  So, you go with your feelings and read the sings as accurately as possible and see what happens.

I think you do have to remember that it has been just since May.  It is a new relationship.  Compatibility things come into play down the road----------  but you describe a great road to travel down and see where this heads.  

Enjoy your new and exciting relationship!

ConnieG · Answer

Well...you can't fall in love with your guard up....The thing about love is taking chances and risking getting hurt.  If you cant take that chance you may not be ready for commitment.
But it seems to be good.  Trust your instincts and pay attention.  Don't let yourself look through rose colored glasses though.  If there are little things that catch your attention and you think they are strange discuss it with a friend ...or on here! :)  Anything that makes you uncomfortable that he does now will only get worse when you get married, and let's face it, isn't dating a trial run for marriage?  
But it looks like if you guys take it slow and don't rush things like you said you were doing this sounds like a healthy happy relationship :)
But also rememeber relationships take hard work if they are going to last. so don't worry if you argue, but do pay attention to how he handles arguements, is this something you could live with forever.  Just start thinking that about things.  And if most of it is yest then you have a keeper.  But remember, he is asking the same thing, and not all good things last forever....
I lost my first true love to distance and not trying harder to close that distance gap, and I have been divorced from my second love.  I am currently married to my third and FINAL love lol . So I just don't want you to go through that pain too. 
Good luck and God bless. I hope this is the one, he certainly sounds like a keeper :)