Is my Boyfriend Addicated to porn?

[dgifford80]

My BF and I have been official for 10 months. We have been in an open relationship since June 2007, and have know eachother for 12 1/2 years. I feel like he watches too much porn. For the 1st half of our relationship we had sex everyday a lot of the time more than 2 x's a day. Now for the last 4 months or so it has only been about once a week and I ask for it everyday. We are both very sexual people. We also both enjoy porn, so we do watch it together. BUT he watches it all the time without me. If I ask he will tell me he is has masterbated, but says its his alone time that is his business. I just found some history on our PS3 and he watched porn almost everyday one week, several times another week. What do I do? Do I confront him? What do I say? He knows that it bother me. I don't care if he masterbates, but why does he have to do it to porn? Why can't we just have sex? I am more than willing everyday anytime? I just don't get it? PLEASE HELP ME.

[iam1butterfly]

This isn't scientific; it's just my theory on the subject... but, men tend to be very
"visual" and that visual interest can sometimes translate into a sort of voyeurism.
I stopped taking both the "porn" issue and the preoccupation with masturbating
issue personal... years ago.
I know that you might be thinking that it's you; but, it's not you.

[dgifford80]

I ask if its me, and he says he loves having sex with me. We have great sex when we get to, but I want it more. He says it takes up less energy and time to masterbate. I just don't get it.

[jo929]

This just does not make sense masrebating while watching porn is sick, but if you both enjoy this kind of thing hop to it, even if he does choose porn over you and real live sex  jo

[broke123]

I dont even know what to say here. As much as i am ok with guys looking at porn, in your case it a little different. If you are ready and willing all the time but he chooses porn over sex well there are too reasons. One is he enjoys the intimacy of masturbation, it cleaner and much faster, and still gives the relief hes seeking, and this is what he prefers. Or option two - he doesnt want to have sex with u, he might not be as sexually turned on by you anymore as he once was, or doesnt like the sex with u too much. I am sorry if its harsh it just could be a possibility. Maybe a sex therapist would be a good idea in your case, so he could express what really the issue is, without being afraid of hurting your feelings...

good luck.