Is my husband cheating on me?

[Blanca13]

I talked to my husband about me having a feeling that he was cheating...well he said he isn't but just today he received a picture message. I looked at it and it was some girl he met while he was working one day. He says there isn't anything going on but i believe there is. How do I know of he is for sure cheating on me?

[coryreply719]

Has he ever given you a reason in the past to be suspicious?

[Chima7]

Maybe she doesn't know he's married. You can't automatically assume she's a homewrecker because it's possible he didn't tell her. There are a lot of guys who don't tell girls that they're married so in that case you can't just jump all over her. He's the one who is married and should know better than to be asking girls for pictures.  Get mad at him first because he's the one who owes you his loyalty. She might have no idea what's going on. Just because he told you that she knows about you doesn't make it true. You need to get to the bottom of this with him. He's the one that is potentially lying to you and for all you know she thinks he's single because he never mentioned being married.

[ash060115]

No trust no relationship imo x

[elva21]

Or you can look her up on Facebook im sure she has one ! And message her on there ?

[Emmmyy]

The best time to snoop through his phone is when he is asleep. And your gut feeling is ALWAYS right, I had a problem with my bf where I knew he was lying but he kept sticking to his ******** stories and eventually I discovered the truth despite how many times he told me was being "honest". Men will lie till they are physically proven wrong its sadly in their nature. But like I said try taking his phone when he is sleeping. Good luck hun

[Mommyoftwolilgirls]

Snoop

[Furby85]

Theresa number you can dial on his phone to make all his calls and text go to your number. I did it to my ex. Just a thought;)

[Nov_miracle2014]

ThAt Sounds Like The Father Of  MY Child He's On Whatsapp HaLf The TimE Even WhenHe's At Work AndMostTimesHe's NotEvenTaLking To Me. I've ReachedThe Point  Where My Feelings Are Gone I Just Block Him Out

[MrsAmySanchez]

With MetroPCS you can get the phone bill, you have to pay $1 dollar to get the call details and set up an online account, unfortunately its only the numbers he has dialed not incoming calls (I don't know why) but call metro and you can do that

[Crystal0093]

That's the only thing that I think you could do, if there is any possible way you can get her number. Cuz idk how else your going to find out the truth if your husband isn't telling you nothin. Sorry your going through this :/
Keep us updated, I hope for your sake he's not.

[Blanca13]

I'm trying to find a way to get her number but he never leaves his phone anywhere

[stephannieluvv]

You should get that girls # and text or call her and ask her why she's sending pics to him. I would! If my husband wanted to push it off I'd get some answers someway

[Blanca13]

I can't get the phone bill because we have metropcs.

[ericatoday]

Well all I can say is snoop snoop snoop. She shouldn't be sending him any photos. And he should be open with you and showing you everything. But I would check the phone bill and see how much he's been txting or calling her.

[Crystal0093]

I'm sorry but something seems to be going on. If he refuses there is a reason why I feel ... He obviously don't want you finding out something .. :/

[NovemberMomma90]

Request the phone bill

[stephannieluvv]

I agree ^ I think I'd text the girl to and ask her what her relationship with your husband.

[Blanca13]

He refuses to give me her number saying he deleted it

[Crystal0093]

Yea, unfortunately that is true.
Normally us woman have the gut instinct if something ain't right and for the most part we are right .. If you have a feeling he is .. He probably is. :/
You can't assume though, I mean there is always that chance that he isn't but idk why some girl would be sending him pics that just don't seem right ..
  If it were me, I'd probably txt the girl since your obviously not getting answers from your husband..

[mz_mila]

Well to be honest if you feel that he is cheating odds are he is. Sorry your going through this. Gl

[Furby85]

Have you ever heard of Spokeo.com? You can find out a lot of stuff. Helps to catch a cheater. Hopefully thats not the case for you but you can never be too sure these days.

[Blanca13]

Everytime I ask or mention her he ignores me and changes the subject. He gets mad because i dony believe him when he says there is nothing going on.

[stephannieluvv]

I'd question that and definitely expect a decent answer as to why she was sending him pictures of her , I don't think shed send them just for fun! Sorry hun :( that *****

[Blanca13]

It was a picture of her. She was all dressed up. He said he deleted her number but when i saw it it was saved under her name. He said that she knows I'm his girl and that we have a 2 year old and another on the way. I've never met her.