Is she pregnant?

[rlh06070]

I had casually been flirting with this 22 year old girl for about 7 months. (I am 24)  She admitted to having a crush on me and it later escalated into more adult conversation. I told her many times it wouldn't be the best situation to be intimate together as it would destroy our friendship and complicate matter. I also told her I was not looking for a relationship and that perhaps she is a vulnerable woman. She admitted she understood, but kept pursuing me. I about ready to move away to graduate school agreed to be intimate. She met twice and never had penetrative sex. I never "spread my seed" during our encounters at all, other than perhaps "precum", which I cant tell. We usually had a barrier, such as underwear or clothes. My penis, didn't receive any attention from her, except maybe a few touches, through clothes and a few brief hand grasps. I myself didn't touch my unit either, so even a chance of "precum" having sperm in it that I transmitted to her vagina seemed unlikely, but it could happen. She is NOT on birth control, she was about two weeks between her period. She had her period about two weeks after we last met. I have moved and she has been aggravated that I haven't been paying much attention to her so she sent me a text message stating: "started taking prenatal multivitamins..." and I said to avoid leading into the statement: "Nice...go get that Folic Acid" she responded saying "Not for that reason" and I said "ah I see" and that was the end of the conversation. Could she be pregnant or is she just trying to manipulate me? She does have some mental health issues that are generally non threatening.

[Londres70]

Cut off all ties with this girl like yesterday.  This is an obvious lie.  

[ROSYouralright]

I must agree with the above posts! Better for you to cut all ties now before some real drama ensues! Best of luck to you!

[arlandonbloom]

It sounds like she is just trying to manipulate you. If you didn't have actual intercourse or ejaculate inside of her, then the chance of her being pregnant is very slim. I agree with specialmom that she could have gotten pregnant before, or soon after your encounter, or maybe she isn't even pregnant at all. She could also be taking pre natal vitamins for her own reasons (hair growth, nail growth).

[specialmom]

Hi there.  No, you didn't impregnate her.  There was no penetration and grinding through underwear and clothing does not end in pregnancy.

Maybe she was pregnant before and needs a dad for the child and picked you.  It happens.  But you didn't get her pregnant from what you describe.

I would agree she is trying to manipulate you.  Move away and until you go, stay away from her.  I'd tell her that is if she turns out pregnant, it would be immaculate conception but that after the baby is born, you'll take a dna test (knowing it isn't your child).  And move on.  She's got a screw loose.  good luck