Hello everybody. I have this question for a looooong long time (i'm 38 and married second time): is that possible to trust men after i've had my whole life experience meeting and hearing stories about men who are cheaters? Starting with my father who was a GREATEST cheater in a world, and it was only my mom's will to take him back every time to keep a family until i'm 18 y.o. She still lives alone - never had any relationship since they divorced. I don't want to be same way, so i'm trying to find my person. I've had two more serious relationship that lasted for 4 years each, but both were with cheating from the men site, that is actually was discovered after the relationships has ended. Now i'm married for 2,5 years. It was OK while i could keep myself not REALLY involved, i've been trying to be the one who is loved more then the one who loves. Now it's ended. I know that i want to be with my husband for the rest of my life, but i'm being jealous now. I do not trust him any more, even though he tells me right words about love, and that he doesn't need anybody - i simply make situations in my mind that might be happening at his work. He is an artist, used to be involved in a theater as an actor, so his art of talking to people is at a high level. He can "sell" you anything. He is busy with his freelance jobs, so he's never home. He calls me during the day, once or twice, but i feel that we;ve lost our connection. Before we've been together more and were doing almpst same things(i was helping with his projects). NOw i'm at home and he is at his jobs. How can i get rid of my jealosy and have a trust in him?