Hey, I am a 21 year old boy doing my uni and i met a girl she is 29, we are togther for 6 months. our relationship is strange, we never made it official but still we discuss about future kids, but sometimes that girl she doesn't want this to be serious, but we love each other, and I am an asian and she is an europian, nowdays she is always over emotional and starting to fight for even little things and blames me for everything, i dnt knw wat to do
pls give me sme advice
What I would do is sit her down and ask her what's wrong. Ask her about what's wrong with her. If you both love each other strongly, the eat thing I recommend is a break from each other, just for a month, then the friction will die out, you start things up again, and if these littles fights continue, then it's not worth it, and as hard as it may be to hear, other people will make you happier.
Thanks for your response, It really means much to me, what i can't understand is she knws am not guilty, even she is saying that she knw that it's not my fault, she says if she got sme anger she says she normally leash it on the close ppl and hurt them, and these fight often happens while talking in a phone, when we r together i mean near with each other she normally doesnt fight, even if she did, after 5 min she will come and hold my arms herself,
any way am going home this summer for 2 months and i hope this 2 months break will help us to solve our problems,
and MaryHorner thanks again for ur reply
There is a lot of difference between 21 and 29 emotionally. I would be very cautious about making long-term plans with someone whose pattern is to lash out at the people she loves. I'm glad you are going to have a hiatus in which to decide how serene a life you would like. Do you want high drama forever, or do you want peace at home? It is possible that peace at home might come at the cost of making the break permanent, and finding someone else in a while.
Enjoy your break at home :)
I used to live in another country and would really miss my family.
I always say a physical break from the situation is excellent for clearing my head. So hard to see straight when on top of things.
If I have any advice, it would be, be true to yourself, listen to your inner voice and follow your heart. There are many girls out there...!
Thanks for your reply GrainsOfSand, yup i misss my family much, i hope this break will help to clear things, i always follow my heart n listen to my inner voice, u may call me crazy but my inner voice helped me to escape many troubles, have a great weekend !))))
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