thanks for all of your comments
Live in HIS parents' home and not your parents' home? Hmmm...........sounds like he is already trying to shut you off from your parents/family. And all this is over one fight? Sounds like your sister, mother and your bf/fiance didn't really care for each other in the first place.
He sure is throwing alot of ultimatums at you; I am sensing a "control freak" in my opinion. Perhaps this is what your mother and sister are sensing.
Anyone who is encouraging leaving your family to be with them and encouraging "0" contact with them.....hmmmmm............
In my opinion, he shouldn't be anyone considered for marriage. He sounds extremely selfish and controlling.
Oh, yes DITTO TinKKerBBeLL; absolutely.
Tinkerbell, you have a way of breaking things down to make them simple. Agree, this doesn't sound good. Thanks for your insight.
He loves You!! ??
and he can't wait to be next to You every day!! ??
and live with You!! ??
BUT
if You don't decide to do it he will move to another place!! !!
far from here!! !!
to find a job!! !!
If he can't wait to be next to You, why would he leave?? He's giving You an ultimatum - if You don't do it his way, he's gone!!
And what about "I'm worried because he does some things that he should change before living with me"?? - That sounds ominous AND important!!
Hi. Well, I think that if you go and live with him, you may have a rift that you can't ever repair with your mom/family. You want to get married prior to living with a man, then stick to that.
I think a better option would be for whatever the fight was about or why it caused your boyfriend to be disallowed from visiting, to be resolved. What did your boyfriend say/do? I would work on everyone resolving that fight rather than the drastic move of going to live with his family. Not worth it
good luck