MARRIED WITH CHILDREN

[Shes_the_1]

I would like to know, if your spouse was born in a city of 25,000. Lived there whole in the same house even. Then the last 6yrs moved 10miles from it. Basically from east side to west side. My question is. Does it highten the odds of the person having extra marital affairs? We both are attractive to look at. I already know the answer in my heart. I just need some comformation. I feel like i have been played since day 1. Sad thing is our kids were grown yet she wanted one more. So now i have my little blessing. I fing that she has instumented financial infeelity twice. I found out when she was 5m pregnant no doubt. I dont have any trust at all. She lies little lies constant. I think i should just file for divorce. I have felt it for over 2yrs now.  My mind is so jumbled with it all. I Love her as much as the first day i seen her. I have feelings of hatred and built anymosity. She says no reason i shouldnt trust her. Yet she has been cought lieing to many times i feel like i cant. I am thinking at this point she should go her way and me go mine. I wont love her any less eitherway. The eye opener to me was texting on her cell, and allnight pc times.

[RockRose]

I don't understand your post.  

You and your wife have been together long enough to have adult children,  and she has lived in the same house she was brought home to as a  baby,  except for the last 6 years.  So you married her  and moved in with her parents all your adult life?

What's financial infidelity?   I can't even guess.

This is kind of an odd post,  after some 25 years of marriage.  It sounds like you've been with her a couple years,  and are learning her personality.

[Barbarella]

If a person wants to have an extra marital affair he/she will do it no matter where, whether moving or not.  Ten miles is not really that far away.

You say the eye opener for you was texting on her cell, and all night PC time.  Do you happen to know if she did text messages with another man?  Speculating can drive you nuts.  Can you find out who she text message with?

If she is up all night, who looks after your 22 month old baby the next day?

[laura1977]

I am confused.  You posted on here regarding another topic.  If you don't trust your wife, then something needs to be done.  Moving has nothing to do with anything, because you didn't move very far away.