Ditto Chima...........well said!
There's a saying that goes, the grass is greener on the other side because it's fertized with bs. Your story is identical to countless other people's in the exact same situation and therefore it will result in the same problem where if you leave your husband for the other guy you'll just end up in this exact same position with the other guy. It's pretty much guaranteed because that is what always happens in this scenario. You're You're no different than all of the others. You are much better off working things out with your husband and leaving the other guy in the past where he belongs because nothing good would come of chasing after this other guy and you will regret having made such a bad decision to pick him over your family. It's not just about you anymore, you have kids and a family to consider in this as well. Your actions will have consequences on them too so you'd better do the right thing here.
Agree with life360. Try to make things better with your husband only.
Hi, i sense from your post that you do love your husband but find qualities in the other man you also like. Insead of starting all over again maybe try to develop these qualities in your husband.