We've been together for 3 years Married for 1 year.This is Her Third Marriage My second I'm 53yrs She's 45Yrs I was married for 28years and havd two wonderful boys, She has a beautiful Daughter from Her first Marriage. When we met the first few months i felt that being a gentleman was the right way to act.Month 3 we became intimate,She would plan to visit me at my Home for weekend stays,In the begining she would initiate the sex,We even went on Trips and stayed in nice Hotels where she took charge,In the begining it felt somewhat uncomfortable to be in a new intimate relationship because #1 I had been prior married for so long,sometimes getting an erection was difficult,and I questioned Myself wonderingabout erictile problems.I then went to a Dr who dismissed that problem and said it could be stress.Somewhere down the line she changed her postion about taking the lead and initiating Sex.She blamed me for being to comfortable with her taking charge.So I began to try to take charge,She then constantly complained that I was'nt doing things correct.Long story short a lot of time has passed.We've Tried several Marriage Counceling Classes but still not very helpful.We now are Married and our Sex life is not as goodas it should be.I Love my wife dearly and am very Sexually attracted to Her,And as for as the erecitile issue,well let Her tell it thats not a problem at all.She says that it's my lack of emotional Intimacy,that keeps her this way,She says that not only that She loves Me but I'm the best thing that ever happened to Her.I have spoken to my Wife that I'm not as in touch with My emotions as she is,and that intimacy is natural for her, and that if She again takes the lead I will try try to learn to what she needs,I find that the more affectionate she is towards me the more she softens me up.She says that she likes the Man to Drive the car and I get that,But I feel we are missing the road because we could share this together to make this right. I'm open to any Christian Comments