Not related to pregnancy, but bd drama

[alexandrajoy13]

So ive been so oblivious to everything going on around me. I was with my boyfriend thinking everything is peaches and cream until i had his phone and my mom told him to knock it off with the text messages with her employee/my friend. He told me since he was caught up what happend saying she would always come onto him and he thought that was grimey so he wanted to set her up all his text messages were very vulgar and im so disappointed that he would do that behind my back. I got her story and its the complete opposite saying she never came onto him but i dont really believe her because ive seen her and how she acts around us. But i dont believe a man would black mail someone. Either way i feel so upset and confused. What is your insite? Because i feel like im going to a deep depression. I broke up with him but this is the last thing i want to deal with being pregnant. :(

[alexandrajoy13]

Yeah my mom is taking me out today to get away from all this stress. I hate feeling like this plus the extra hormones i think push me over.

[ForeverAlways]

Make sure you remember that you are pregnant and when you stress so does your baby. Give him time to realize you're upset leave him Alone so he will know you're serious think things over to yourself. .. if you want me to beat ole girl *** say word lol but dnt make decisions out of anger

[Alexbabyy]

hoeasss bitchess

[alexandrajoy13]

Yes i agree. I hate this position im in. Im supposed to try for my family but i just feel so hurt by them both. He lives with me so i cant get any space. Its so hard. I need to put my baby and me first.

[niasule]

Honestly there is no such thing as friends these days. You have God and yourself at the beginning of everyday and the end. And how she tell you to get with him now, she's eyeing him slore move right there. Your pregnant and the baby is your focus.

[BSny20]

Hun, friends will not do that to friends! She is not a good friend at all and you should take time away from being her friend also. As a friend she should of never been texting him in the first place. And as a friend she should of told you about it going on! She is no good! She is just as guilty as your boyfriend!

[alexandrajoy13]

Oh wow thank you! That really helps me a lot. Yeah she knew we were together and told me to start dating him actually. I feel so stuck because i was so happy to start my family with someone i thought loved me and bam a big curve ball. Im going to take some time from him and see if i can trust him later on but he really crossed the boundary. Now i just dont know what to do about her because shes my friend but i feel like she put me in a bad situation to.

[BSny20]

Did she know you were together?? (The girl) how disrespectful and inconsiderate! She has no self respect for herself if she is going to be a home wrecker. Granted it takes two, but that's just wrong for her to work with you and do that behind your back and that is really wrong of him also. He got caught and made up a lie. Same thing all men do. Before my husband and I were married, he  I found out was texting his ex. He said it was all a joke and he didn't realize he was going to lose me. But he later admitted he was just saying the first part because he was caught. So we spent a month apart and reconciled. Love does some pretty crazy things to us. I never thought I'd be that girl to allow myself back to a man like that but I did. He has changed so much and our communication is so much better. He went through counseling and is just all around a smarter man than before so to speak. He is really stepping up. We planned our son and planned our marriage. Of course the incident happened some time ago.  Hun, follow your heart. Lay down the law and tell him exactly how you feel on things. Make sure you let him know you know he was doing it because he never thought he'd get caught. Find out what the deeper issues are and what made him do that. Do not allow him to blame you for his unfaithfulness! :) sorry hope that helps!!