Please give me a suggestion!

I have my boyfriend.we have been together for 7months now..He went away for his duty since august but we phoned each other everyday.he will be come back in december.When he arrive,he want to sex with me.It will be my first time..I afraid of having a baby.So i decide to use a condom with him and i will take emergency birth-control pills like Ecee-2 after having sex.I want to know is it enough to contracept baby?Can i be pregnance even if i use these two contraceptions?Give me some suggestion please.It;s important for me.

[blondie111]

Why don't you just use the pill tablet that you will take on the first day of your period and break then for 7 days?

[jml1986]

Since it is your first time, I would go to the doctor and be put on some type of contraceptive.  It is important to have regular yearly checkups when becoming sexually active. Just remember that the even if you are proper birth control medication, it is still onlt 99% effective. You still would have a 1% chance of getting pg so I would also use a condom. This will also keep you from contracting any stds.

[firstlove1500]

when using pill tablet,during the break for 7 days ,can i be pregnance?or when can i sex with him again after this 7days to protect 100% pregnancy?i don;t know that point clearly.Can u explain me?

[firstlove1500]

when using pill tablet,during the break for 7 days ,can i be pregnance?or when can i sex with him again after this 7days to protect 100% pregnancy?i don;t know that point clearly.Can u explain me?

[firstlove1500]

I won't sex with him usually..i will sex with him 1 time per month.I decided.and i dare not go to doctor because in my country,people will be look down to me before marriage doing sex.Okay,then for the first time,i will use condom and emergency birth-control pill to  protect pregnance.Is it enough for first time?i don't want to use contraception pills because i heard it can get me fatter.i don't want to be fat.we haven't ready for our baby and to marry.and he doesn't want me to have a child now..but i want to fill his wish..coz everytime when we meet,he want to sex with me.but he control himself becoz he love me so much..i don't want him to be like that..i want to give up my body.but i don;t want baby right now.if u don't mind,find a way for me,please.

[slow_healer]

Tell people you're going to the doctor for another reason. All birth control pills have side effects, but it's not always weight gain. Try one and if you feel it's not working, switch to another until you find one that works for you. Seriously consider birth control - it's designed for people who want to have sex regularly. I would NOT recommend using the emergency "plan B" pill every time you have sex. It is very rough on your body and not good if you want to have kids in the long run (from what I understand).